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Soccermom
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  • West Hills, CA
  • United States
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Soccermom commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"I agree that these men are predators. In my case, one of my good friends is a sergeant with LAPD and he will make a visit if necessary. I'm keeping my guard up and my eyes peeled."
Jan 12, 2017
Soccermom commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Debbie and Tearsflow - I also had a situation with a neighbor who always did handyman work for us.  He lives around the corner in his girlfriend's house.  Last September he came over to do some work and started telling me about one of…"
Jan 11, 2017
Soccermom commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Sherry - my husband's birthday was a week after he passed away last January so it was all a blur.  I have the year anniversary coming up on January 25th and then his birthday on February 4th... For all the milestones last year, I put…"
Jan 4, 2017
Soccermom commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Silver Fern - thank you for sharing.  I think we all needed to hear this from someone who has walked in our shoes."
Dec 15, 2016
Soccermom commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Sherry - I had the exact same situation in February.  When I was at the bank, the (very) young banker kept smiling at me and telling me how lucky I was to be able to pay off my mortgage.  He was very chatty and I finally spoke up when he…"
Dec 1, 2016
Soccermom commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"I have also stayed away from technology. On T-day, I made sure that my kids and I took a really nice photo of the 4 of us. At dinner, my boys place an empty chair between them while my brother-in-law held a beautiful tribute. I also added my…"
Nov 29, 2016
Soccermom commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"I agree with Sherry about all the stupid details.  I'm 10 months out and have only removed my hubby's name from the basic stuff where I had no choice (like when I set up a living trust for my kids and had to create an entirely new…"
Nov 17, 2016
Soccermom replied to lowrsr (Sherry)'s discussion Wedding Rings in the group Widowed in 2016
"I had the same issue.  I was wearing his wedding ring on my right middle finger, my anniversary band on my right hand and my wedding/engagement on my left.  They were all very loose and it made me nervous.  Around the same time, I…"
Nov 13, 2016
Soccermom replied to moonstone's discussion Moving On? in the group Widowed in 2016
"Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be a Soaring Spirits group close by.  I guess I could check Meetup for... singles?  widows?  people to hang out with??  Not even sure how to title it."
Nov 7, 2016
Soccermom replied to moonstone's discussion Moving On? in the group Widowed in 2016
"Hopefully someone has a great idea of how to meet other people "like us".... and can share...  It's Friday night... my daughter was at Disneyland all day for a leadership conference (obviously I live in Southern California), my…"
Nov 4, 2016
Soccermom replied to moonstone's discussion Moving On? in the group Widowed in 2016
"WittyBlondeWolverine - too bad we don't live in the same state!  You're obviously a big Michigan fan (doing great this season!!!) and I'm a UCLA alumni (they suck right now but that's another story), and I love wine also.…"
Nov 4, 2016
Soccermom replied to moonstone's discussion Moving On? in the group Widowed in 2016
"I know I'm not ready to "meet" guys... but it would be nice to hang out with people other than couples... which is what I'm trying to find.  If I can get myself motivated, I will explore Meetup... but these days if it's…"
Nov 3, 2016
Soccermom replied to moonstone's discussion Moving On? in the group Widowed in 2016
"I was invited to a friend's Halloween party on Saturday.  Her daughter and mine are very good friends and she wanted to find a place for both of them since it was an adult party.  The more I thought about it, I just couldn't go.…"
Nov 3, 2016
Soccermom replied to moonstone's discussion Moving On? in the group Widowed in 2016
"I have been seeing a grief therapist since August (right after my oldest went away to college).  It's been very helpful to talk out all the frustrations/anger about the last year  - my husband was sick last year, then misdiagnosed…"
Nov 1, 2016
Soccermom replied to moonstone's discussion Moving On? in the group Widowed in 2016
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Oct 30, 2016
Soccermom replied to moonstone's discussion Moving On? in the group Widowed in 2016
"I have been reconnecting with a lot of my junior high/high school friends in the last few months and I feel very comfortable with all of them, even though I haven't seen many of them in 30+ years.  I think I'm realizing that I need to…"
Oct 30, 2016

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At 4:44pm on April 17, 2016, Sarah said…
I did exactly the same thing. All medicatins, vitamins and all he was doing to live. Nothing else wi be touched for now.... He was only 65 and im lost
At 8:09am on March 7, 2016, wannabmartha said…

So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others.  Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help. Below is a link that you might find helpful as a new member.

http://widowedvillage.org/forum/topics/need-help-using-the-site-ask-here

 

 
 
 

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