"Hi KMA2106, I am sorry for your loss. I've been here at this forum about a month. It has been very comforting and helpful. I lost my wife Dec 2016. It was sudden. I feel like I am traveling through a fog.
"I think C.S. Lewis was right on with the quote below. We have a client (husband and wife team). The husband died of heart failure last week. They buried him Tuesday. He spent several weeks in ICU. It is the same ICU floor…"
" catapan - I agree The awesome feeling I wouild get holding my soul mate Lori and whispering my thoughts and feelings in her ear is something I so cherished. I would give anything to have that back.
Her eyes sparkled…"
"Hi Folks - Thank you for all of the heart felt insight. I lost my wife at the December last year. It has been very difficult. I agree with your posts to treat people kindly and spread positive energy.
One of my favorite quotes is…"
"In my humble opion, you do not need to deal with that. If you need to I would seek a PFA and legal counsel. I am so sorry you are subjected to that after your loss. I pray you find relief from this. Please take…"
"The "whole mess is surreal" that is the perfect description. They say there are 5 stages of grief : "Denial & Isolation", Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance. These stages don't happen in any particular order…"
"Thank you -- for offering a bit of guidance in this journey of immense sorrow. I lost my wife the Thursday after Christmas last year. I spent the 12 before that sitting by her side holding her hand and stroking her hair talking to her as she lay in…"
Welcome to Widville, Soul searcher. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.