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Spunky
  • Female
  • Yuma, AZ
  • United States
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Spunky replied to NoLongerInBergenJC's discussion Share your relocation story!
"So here I am, about six weeks since my last post. The cohousing group at Placitas, NM, was not good for me or for them. In my typical naive way I had thought there weren't hidden agendas--and there were. It was a difficult process for me,…"
May 29, 2016
Spunky replied to NoLongerInBergenJC's discussion Share your relocation story!
"Cee, I'm glad to connect with you again. We share similarities in this idea of moving. I have been very undecided, then decided, then undecided, and so forth. (I think you know how it goes!) I looked at every option I could find and each looked…"
Apr 16, 2016
Spunky replied to NoLongerInBergenJC's discussion Share your relocation story!
"Good afternoon! I am delighted that your moves have been going well. I got stressed by how little progress I seemed to be making myself, and then I lost track of how to find this topic. I suppose if I used Facebook frequently I would perceive a…"
Apr 3, 2016
Spunky replied to NoLongerInBergenJC's discussion Share your relocation story!
"It seems the classic "between a rock and a hard place" dilemma. I've been thinking the last few days that I need to pay more attention to online sources of friends--like WV. At least those connections could go anywhere with me. It is…"
Dec 12, 2015
Spunky replied to NoLongerInBergenJC's discussion Share your relocation story!
"I read a book recently, "Going Solo: The extraordinary rise and surprising appeal of living alone." Reading it was good for me as it helped me realize my own experience is not unique. Especially in the sections about those of us over 55,…"
Dec 9, 2015
Spunky replied to NoLongerInBergenJC's discussion Share your relocation story!
"I've not been back to WV much in the last year or more--because I've been occupied with activities around the decision about moving or not. Today I just "happened" back to this specific discussion. What a surprise! I have read…"
Dec 6, 2015
Spunky replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: WEST - MOUNTAIN in the group Connect with others in your area
"Heather, I'll be in Flagstaff tomorrow evening. Cynthia & I are planning to have dinner together. Would you like to join us? I sent you a friend request & will recheck the site a bit later to see if you've answered, then we can…"
Oct 4, 2015
Spunky replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: WEST - MOUNTAIN in the group Connect with others in your area
"Good morning, Cynthia! I usually drive through Flagstaff as I travel between Yuma & ABQ so I may well take you up on that offer in October. I have a Facebook page, but go to it only once or twice a year: virtual connection for me places way…"
Aug 5, 2015
Spunky replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: WEST - MOUNTAIN in the group Connect with others in your area
"I am usually in southwest Arizona and am spending the summer in Albuquerque, NM. I would love to connect with others nearby!"
Aug 5, 2015
Spunky replied to RonB's discussion Don't Stew, Do! What are you doing to climb out of your grave?
"I'm heading to northern New Mexico on the 14th and will stay until the 24th. This is my first trip to actually explore a place I think I would like to live. I'm both excited and scared. :-) The map isn't working, at least on my iPad,…"
Nov 9, 2014
Lady v left a comment for Spunky
"thank you for your thoughtful comment to me.  I just reread it and it gave me hope. Best, lady V"
Aug 22, 2014
Spunky commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"It did rain heavily this afternoon, katpilot, in northern NM. I'm sitting outdoors right now with a light breeze, distant thunder & lightening, and such a fresh feeling in the air! For those of you who are thinking of traveling, you can…"
Jul 27, 2014
Spunky commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"I want to comment on two things: traveling alone and where I live. To start with the last, I live in Yuma, AZ. It's a bit cooler there than in the Phoenix/Scottsdale/Mesa area because we have much less concrete and asphalt to hold the heat day…"
Jul 27, 2014
Spunky commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"Tomorrow is our wedding anniversary. I don't understand it because we often forgot to celebrate our anniversary when he was alive--and that was okay--but it now is one of the most difficult days for me to face. I'm lonely, testy with…"
Jul 23, 2014
Spunky commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"To all of you, I, too, have kept up with the posts here, reading all your words and wanting to respond, yet not knowing just what I would say. My own roller coaster continues, but most of my experiences, thoughts, and feelings are on the…"
Jul 13, 2014
Spunky replied to Hayley_A's discussion Where is everyone from?
"I'm from Illinois and have lived in Arizona for over 30 years."
Mar 16, 2014

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At 6:53pm on August 22, 2014, Lady v said…

thank you for your thoughtful comment to me.  I just reread it and it gave me hope. Best, lady V

At 5:54pm on December 4, 2013, Bonnie said…
Thank you for the friend request. Do you still have family in the area?
At 6:28pm on August 9, 2013, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Spunky. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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