"Adoption1964, It has been nearly two years since I lost my husband of over 22 years. I still cry all the time, usually over little things, sometimes stupid things. Things like at the grocery store - "I used to buy this for my husband but since…"
"Nieta, Thank you, it's from experience. I do know that I will get to that point eventually, and in fact have been there before after I left my Ex, and spent a few years alone. I was travelling, alone, cross country on a Grayhound bus when I met…"
I'm so sorry about your experience with your college roommate. I have to applaud you for actually going there, though. I think that it might mean you are ready to start having a life on your own instead of as half…"
"Hi everybody. I haven't been here in a really long time. I haven't even been keeping up with the comments, but SilverAnniversary, your comment popped up in my email and it felt like time to say hi. I have just read the last few pages to…"
"My husband was my everything, my world. I can't believe he has been gone for two whole months already. But then sometimes it seems like he's been gone for soooooooo long. I miss him so much. Sometimes I wonder how I've made it even…"
"Thank you everyone.......I'm trying. It's just so hard to see anything good coming for the future. Between financial problems, isolation, and disability, it's hard just to get food in the house. Now my beautiful wonderful wolf…"
"This trip sounds really great. The "shack" is wicked cool and it would be great to be with a bunch of people who wouldn't care if I sat there and cried all weekend. (I'm not quite two months into this whole "widow…"
"Kim you can share as much or as little as you like. We are all hurting here and we GET IT. Our stories are all different but they are also all the same. Sometimes it helps to know you are not alone on this horrible journey."
"I've heard that a B-complex vitamin will do great things. I haven't been able to afford to try it yet but hopefully I will soon. If anyone tries it before me, please let us all know what you think.
On the subject of…"
"Jere-Nine, My husband wasn't perfect. My biggest gripe to anyone who would listen was about how much beer he drank. And he could drink a LOT of beer. He started 1st thing in the morning and would be drunk by noon. Yes, it upset me a LOT. I…"
"OK bobmac don't even go there. How about -45F for the HIGH?????? -70F for the low? Butte often gets colder than the north pole. Of course I don't go out in it, lol. I'm from Buffalo. I can do snow but I hibernate all winter here.…"
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