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Sueg
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  • Milwaukee, WI
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Sueg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"CvilleSarah, I am so sorry for your loss.  I am also new to this site. My husband passed away 2 months ago and I struggle every day to try and figure out what direction I should be going in.  Hugs to you as we go on this journey."
Sep 12
Sueg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Oh no , please don't say the second year is harder than the first year.  I can't imagine the heartache and pain i have yet to  indure.  My husband passed away a couple months ago and every day is a struggle .  I try…"
Sep 12
Judyrose left a comment for Sueg
"Hi Sue, Well I can see why you don’t want to get a cat to take back-and-forth . I don’t know how  how are you can maintain two houses and I bet your college is just beautiful but I suppose it is really hard without Tom there. I…"
Sep 9
Judyrose left a comment for Sueg
"Hi Sueg. I’m new here to its only been a few days. So welcome. I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband of 48 years on May29,2019 the last three months have been a blur. I got a rescue dog about a week ago. She seems to help at…"
Aug 31
Sueg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"I am new to Soaring Spirits and not very computer savvy either. My husband, Tom passed away on July 14th, 2019 and I thought it was hard to care for him, but nothing compares to the sadness and loneliness I feel.  I try to keep busy but at…"
Aug 23
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Sueg
"Welcome to Widville, Sueg. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and…"
Aug 17

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At 10:29am on September 9, 2019, Judyrose said…

Hi Sue,

Well I can see why you don’t want to get a cat to take back-and-forth . I don’t know how  how are you can maintain two houses and I bet your college is just beautiful but I suppose it is really hard without Tom there. I have a hard enough time cleaning one house let alone two. 

 Are used to keep a very clean house in the house but now I find myself not caring if it’s clean or telling myself all it can wait till tomorrow. 

 My husband Cliff that I didn’t VA hospital and I Wasn’t there it was so hard for me to walk in that room and see him he’s been having heart problems for quite a while so it wasn’t a big surprise but I just wish I’d been there but they all tell me that you don’t want to see what he went through but I would’ve liked to had time to tell him things.

 I don’t know which way would’ve been better but I’m glad that you followed his wish at times his His wishes I’m sure that was hard to watch how long had he been sick?

 I think that’s wonderful that you carry his shoes in your  in your car makes you feel like he’s with you. 

 I tried to go to supper by myself that was the first time I got about halfway through the mail and had to leave when I’m in the car and cried and then went to the cemetery and holler at him for leaving me and then felt guilty for hollering at him  

 Have you tried to go out by yourself yet it’s just so strange not to have someone with you I’m just so ready for this to be over but I know it’s going to take longer  

     Hugs 

Judyrose 

At 7:38pm on August 31, 2019, Judyrose said…

Hi Sueg. I’m new here to its only been a few days. So welcome. I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband of 48 years on May29,2019 the last three months have been a blur. I got a rescue dog about a week ago. She seems to help at least she gives me a reason to get up. I keep telling myself it will get better but I have no idea how. Welcome Judyrose 

At 7:45am on August 17, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Sueg. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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