"I love the breath saying. I lost John on Feb. 13. I'm so lost. I don't know how to do anything anymore, but I keep chugging through the days, trying to be the best mom I can be alone. He took his own life, its like…"
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adrift commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"This is for you MrsD...I have had you on my mind all day, ever since the post from lj started. I feel that I owe you an apology for posting that her words were beautiful . It was a knee jerk reaction without really thinking of how those words would…"
Trish_in_WI commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Dianne, I love that quote that you found on Facebook. Truer words . . . huh? I also couldn't agree more with how special it is to be around people who "get it."
My married friends and my family certainly DO NOT get…"
goingon commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Dianne, I know. I love being in that environment with people who do totally get it. I'm not good at sharing hotel rooms. I don't sleep well as it is and I'm not very tolerant of nighttime noises of others! I…"
amberd24 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"I think it's very insensitive to say it's better because your young. I was 24 and he was 28 we had a 4 year old who is now 5. We were together for 6 years. He was supposed to start his new job the next day so there was no life insurance…"
Tracy commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2013
"oh boy, the pain we've all endured, the loves of our lives gone. A club we all never wanted to be a member of. My son and I found him, I don't know how to recover. thank you for reaching out to me, another lonely friday night
I…"
Jerry replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Your feelings are going to be unique to you. As for feeling numb,it seems common to people that lost a spouse. I guess it's our minds way of protecting us . I know even though I knew my wife was dying it was still somewhat of a shock. You will…"
Potter commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2013
"So sorry Tracy for your loss at such a young age and the way it happened. I don't have any words of wisdom for you. Sure hope in time things will get better. I know I am hoping we can all have better days. I am having so much…"
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Hi friends,Many of you have been asking for a little more support in using the site. Our volunteers will stop by this discussion and answer your questions.Don't forget these other ways to get help…Continue
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October Triggers: "Pinktober," cancers, and other signs of fall...
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What are you feeling today? Is the fall foliage (if you live in an area where trees color!) and back to school stuff and pumpkin-flavored everything stir in you happy memories or sad ones?The Breast…Continue
Parenting: "Letting Children Share in Grief," New York Times
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Hi folks, thought I would post this article with a great summary of the basic information about grieving children. Interested to hear what you all think. This is also a terrific resource for you to…Continue
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Bucket lists: do you have one? Has it changed?
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The movie "Bucket List" came out AFTER…Continue
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Summer: your feelings, memories, and expectations
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Are you planning a vacation -- or does that seem too overwhelming this year?Share your memories of summers past, or thoughts about new traditions you might start... or perhaps just the dread of…Continue
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Camp Widow WEST Coast 2012 -- Q&A by Soaring Spirits Board members
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Questions about Camp Widow West Coast? Camp Widow West will be held August 10-12 in San Diego, CA. Scores of Widowed Village members have attended and can share information about the event, and those…Continue
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Was your relationship less than perfect?
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Do you sometimes feel like most people here had perfect relationships, and you didn't? Do you think sometimes grieving people put their late loved ones on pedestals or "forget" the hard times? Maybe…Continue
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Camp Widow 2012 Q&A
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Questions about Camp Widow? Michele Neff Hernandez and her terrific supporting board members will stop by periodically to answer your questions and share ideas. Folks who have attended in earlier…Continue
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Open Thread: February, Valentine's Day, winter weather...
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Please reply below in this discussion area to share your experiences, then and now, that are "called" by this time of year, which will be open all month (or until I start the next "seasonal" sharing…Continue
Article: Loss of a parent and depression in children
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This is a concise article about a topic that is very hard to read for those of us whose kids were young when our partner died.…Continue
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Awkward: A conversation in year 6 of widowhood
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Pet Peeve: Boundaries
Posted on February 13, 2013 at 11:00am 33 Comments 3 Likes
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I'm participating in the Widowed Blog Hop this month. Be sure to check out the other participants and leave them some comment love. For the largest list of blogs by Widowed folks, check my blog roll here. To add yours to the list,…
ContinueSay his name: the #1 tip, and my reality
Posted on February 13, 2013 at 10:30am 3 Comments 2 Likes
A long time ago, I wrote this post in draft. It didn't get very far.
But the topic is MY NUMBER ONE TIP for how to help a widowed person: SAY THEIR NAME. And it's also why I HATE that everyone ELSE thinks the number one…
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- At 6:37am on May 24, 2013,
pawprintmama said… - I am so grateful for all the resources available to help me with my grief. my Scott has only been gone 9 weeks and I feel like I'm still in denial! I can't believe I will never get to touch him or talk to him or see him smile or look into his beautiful eyes again. Its such an all consuming sadness! There are days I don't see how it's possible to go on without him, but we have a little boy (4years old) so I have to find a way.
- At 10:25pm on April 21, 2013,
Tin_Woodman said…
Hi there,
Thanks for the "friending." I am not on Face Book, so am a bit slow with social media, but will no doubt find my way around here. I lost my Kathi in August of 2010, and while the searing pain is no longer present, a constant pall of sadness remains. Treh CancerCare board was a life saver, but it times out after two years. Glad this board is here.
best,
Mike L.
- At 11:50pm on April 17, 2013,
Sue said… Hi Supa...thanks for friending and for this site. Will not be making it to camp. So disappointed but hope you all have a great time.
- At 9:31pm on March 16, 2013,
Profe D (Susan) said… Supa.....someone said that you had STFU cards to print out!!! Where where where!?!?! I need them! :)
- At 5:42am on March 1, 2013, Jpswife(Cathy) said…
- Thankyou for ALL the encouragement you give ;). Cathy
- At 5:41am on March 1, 2013, Jpswife(Cathy) said…
- Thankyou for ALL the encouragement you give ;). Cathy
- At 6:32pm on February 26, 2013,
LostCactus (WoodyC) said… Hi Supa, thanks for the friend request. I'm at the crossroads of life searching for peace and harmony once again. I've been wondering and searching for a place to meet others that know and live with the heart aches and pains of losing a spouse. I look forward to talking with you in the chat area someday. Take Care! Keep Smiling
Woody
- At 6:05pm on February 19, 2013,
LarryB said… Hi all. I'm new too. Wife passed 1-22 after 17 years of illness and a wonderful 46 year marriage.
I serve as the president of The Well Spouse Association, an international support organization for the spouses and partners of the chtronically ill or injured. 33% of our members are former well spouse, having already lost their spouse. Of the 14 members of my local support group 8 are now widowed.
One of my previous members, Sherbear, told me about this group and I decided to check it out.
So thanks for beuing here and I hope to spend some time with you.
Right now I am afraid I must return to the endless paperwork necessitated by my change in status to a widower.
See you soon
Larry
- At 5:23pm on February 19, 2013, Angel1 said…
I have reading alot of the things that are said on the chat,alot of times I just sit back and watch.It really sad to hear every thing that other ones are going through,every body has there own stories and what they have gone through and still what they are going through.Every body is hurting in there own way.All of us will take one day at a time and that is the only way all of will learn how to deal with what we have to face every day.I am really glad that I have met all the different people just sad how I had to meet all of you.
- At 1:55pm on February 12, 2013, Angel1 said…
My husband passed away December 11 2010 from Melanoma cancer,He got it in 2006 he went through and exstensive surgery he beat it,then then in 2009 it came back had another surgery but they did not get it all and passed in 2010 ,we had been married since 1969,he was 16 and I was 17,he was my only love I miss him so much Angel 1 my name is Diane
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