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Susieg
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  • Paulden, AZ
  • United States
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Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"Hi Shayne and Steve...I hardly ever comment on here anymore....but seeing Shayne's comment about 6 years triggered me to comment.  I passed 6 years 4/30.  I miss my Michael every day, I don't know that is ever going to change.…"
Sep 2, 2015
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"Juls, it will be 6 years for me on 4/30.  I have been on antidepressents since before Mike died, and afterwards, they changed them to other ones over and over again.  This resulted in huge weight gain for me, altho inactivity has…"
Feb 22, 2015
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"Shayne....I am also at 5 1/2 years.  I live alone with my cat and dog, and am trying to get back to being able to get rid of the pain in my legs and feet due to obesity from really sitting my computer and not doing a lot of anything.  I am…"
Dec 25, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"I dont recall you telling me that, because I always say I am not religious, but spiritual, and I believe in signs. That we very sweet of you to tell me all of this. I always like to hear how people perceive these things. Will write more later but…"
Sep 29, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"you still worry and obsess about it.  Sure, you aren't alone, but look what it does to you.  It also sounds like you want this to work, but don't see a long term  commitment from him.  He is just a kid.  My nephews…"
Sep 29, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"I have tried twice to write to you, and I get quite a bit written, and then it changes pages and I lose everything. I owner if anyone else is having this problem. I am doing the same.  My life never changes.  In fact, I read where other…"
Sep 29, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
Sep 27, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"The trip was wonderful, Steve.  A lot to do on river cruise, altho I was not able to do much walking because of my feet and pain from fibromyalgia.  I am much too young to feel this damn old!!!  Wait....wasn't that a song? LOL…"
Aug 4, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"Hey steve,proud of you for attempting and finishing tour 142 steps. I feel your pain. Right now I am I Basel, Switzerland. I have walked more than I have in years and still have until the 28th to go! I am looking forward to getting on mt river…"
Jul 11, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
""Sometimes we have to get out of our own way, to allow the happiness god is trying to give us." I just typed a huge message to you and accidentally deleted it  But I rambled and I guess it is just as well.  Anyway, don't…"
Jun 23, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"I wanted to comment on this for a while...every time I get read to, something comes up.  I hope you dance........... I love that song.   I read your posts and see your desire to love, the need to hurt...and I just feel so bad for you.…"
Jun 21, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"Hi Steve.  I live in Paulden, AZ.  25 mi n/w of Prescott, AZ.  It is about a 2 1/2 hr drive from my house to Laughlin.  Definitely let me know next time you are there!!!  I would love to meet you and Chris!!!  I leave…"
Jun 9, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"Steve, I go to Laughlin a lot.  Well, not a lot, but enough.  Let me know next time you go.  It's like 2.5 hours from my house.  I will meet you up there...."
Jun 8, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"I am so happy to hear you are still so happy and going to get a house.  I always love reading your posts."
Apr 26, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"Steve, again, so happy for your Chris.  Just enjoy, quit worrying because it only takes away the joy you are feeling.  It's ok to feel that joy.  It's been a long time, and almost 5 years for me, too....no one in my life but…"
Mar 22, 2014
Susieg commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2009
"Steve, we have been writing here for a while here, and I so feel your pain when you write.  It will be 5 years for me April 30, but unlike you, I have no one else in the picture.  I am so happy you found love again.  I know how…"
Mar 1, 2014

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At 10:46am on September 29, 2012, wannabmartha said…

Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear Susie, Happy Birthday to youuuuuu! 

At 9:02am on September 29, 2012,
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said…

Happy birthday, lady! Hope you get some cake or something today! :-)

At 11:14am on December 20, 2011, Kim C said…

Hi Sus

 

No I'm not on the site a lot either was just feeling blue & related to your past post. My email is [email protected] to avoid going through the Village just to send a message. How are you doing this week? I am really digging deep this week I'll tell you. I keep wondering when we are going to feel better. Don't you?

Kim

At 4:50am on September 5, 2011, azbarbara1961 said…

Hi Susieg..I am in Prescott Valley, I saw that you were in Paulden.  My husband was a Vietnam Vet, he had been "Collecting" problems from the Agent Orange they sprayed down on all those guys, anyway he was diaginosed with Pancratic Cancer on June 6, 2011 and he passed away July 20, 2011 from it.  It was already stage 4 when they found it.  He was in bed and wouldn't wake up for me that Saturday, went to ER at VA they put him in ICU for 2.5 days, went to hospice passed that wednesday.  He just turned 64 on July 18th. I am sorry for your loss and I am sorry we have to meet like this.  I am so lonely and I miss him so much!!  Good days...bad days...days I just don't think I can do it without him.  I am glad I found this site, it is very helpful because I think I'm losing my mind sometimes I come here and read that the things I am feeling and doing are normal and they will pass.  I have a LONG way to go on this journey, I know I will make it, I am strong and realize it is just part of my journey.  I have to just know that I WILL see him again. 

HUGZZZ

At 7:09am on March 4, 2011, T said…

Suisieg, Thanks for the comment.  Strange, but peaceful knowing someone else who is walking this same journey beginning on the same day.  Lately I'm finding things really difficult again.  Not sure if it just grief, winter, Dave's Birthday the end of the month, then leading to the second April 30th.  (Probably all the above!) 

 

At 12:52pm on March 2, 2011, wannabmartha said…
Thank you for your supportive comments. Sometimes it just feels good to share =)
At 9:58am on February 28, 2011, wannabmartha said…

My husband and oldest son died together in a plane crash January 2009. :-(

I've been participating in the "Double Loss" forum. It's a sad added dimension to my grief as a widow.

At 8:34am on January 19, 2011,
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said…
Susie, thanks for joining! It's very kind of you to be here while things are developing... please do let me know if you have questions. I think we're all still learning about the features and the best way to have conversations in this different space. Best to you!
 
 
 

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