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Suzy B
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  • Fort Smith, AR
  • United States
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Fighting the Life Insurance company

Started this discussion. Last reply by Patience (Diane) Oct 11, 2015. 5 Replies

Hello. I am brand new here. My issue has less to do with coming to terms with becoming a widow than it does with just the survival of me and my children. My husband left the house on June 15, the day…Continue

 

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Suzy B commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"I recently passed the 2 year mark and am feeling better for the most part. The grief is much less intense and no longer all consuming. I am at a cross roads in my life now. I am pursuing a wrongful death lawsuit against two mental health clinics…"
Jul 9
Suzy B replied to Susan's discussion First Time Grandma without Grandpa ?
"Hi from another Susan. I became a grandma for the first time in October of 2015, two months after my husband passed. It was a difficult time for my daughter being pregnant and losing her father at the same time. But once my grandson was born I…"
Jun 3
fatherof3 left a comment for Suzy B
"looks like we just switched places i moved from ark to reseda ca you moved from ca to ark if you had said something i would have waved as we passed by going in different directions . have a nice day john"
Dec 13, 2016
fatherof3 left a comment for Suzy B
"and so sorry to see you here but it is a big help"
Dec 9, 2016
fatherof3 left a comment for Suzy B
"suzy where in ark are you from i was born and raised until 15 yrs old in lonoke ark "
Dec 9, 2016
Suzy B replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion For those who do not want to date ...
"My husband and I were married for 25 years and before he died by suicide he made me promise to go out with a certain man he said he had lined up to be my "next husband." He kept saying "He'll be calling you . . . so promise me…"
Dec 9, 2016
Suzy B replied to Patience (Diane)'s discussion Is Anyone Else disappointed in The US Public behavior over the 2016 Presidential Election?
"Yes, Diane, I am VERY disappointed in how people are acting this elections season.  In fact, my kids and I decided not to attend thanksgiving celebrations with my husband's relatives because of their views and how they are acting towards…"
Nov 21, 2016
Suzy B commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Is anyone else feeling like their grief has gotten so much worse since the presidential election?  I am grieving severely for my country right now and it has made my grief over my husband a lot worse.  He SO wanted Hillary Clinton to…"
Nov 18, 2016
Suzy B replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion NOVEMBER Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"Today is my birthday, the second one since my husband died about a year and a half ago. I don't have any particular plan to get through the day, other than just treating it any other day at work, but I sure am missing him a lot right now."
Nov 3, 2016
Suzy B commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Not only are our spouses not around to encourage us and show interest in what we are doing, but they aren't there to be amazed at all the new things we are learning and having to deal with.  Case in point, in the 15 months since my husband…"
Sep 13, 2016
Suzy B commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Mary, please see a doctor about your health issues.  The stress you've been under since becoming a widow may have exacerbated an existing condition, or perhaps this is something different. But it is important to get it checked…"
Aug 16, 2016
Suzy B commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"I'm just a little over the one year mark, too.  I'm proud of myself for making some "progress" in that I'm getting used to my "new normal" I guess.  I don't cry every day any more, but when I do cry…"
Aug 10, 2016
Suzy B commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Here I thought I was doing so great making it through the the one year mark alright. . . Then I fell through one of those trap doors too. It was not too unexpected, but not a complete shock this time. I think I got back on track faster this tine. Or…"
Jun 26, 2016
Suzy B commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"I guess I have been so busy with legal issues and particularly still trying to collect the life insurance a year after he died, that the first anniversary went by without any fanfare. We visited his grave, which now has a nice new tombstone on it…"
Jun 21, 2016
Suzy B replied to kenslove 's discussion I am a widow by suicide, and haunted by that look in his eyes before he died
"Hi kenslove, My husband also lost his battle to bipolar disorder, almost exactly a year ago, and went missing from the house only to be found 10 weeks later deceased in an open field. We don't know for sure if he committed suicide or died…"
Jun 16, 2016
Suzy B commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"I can also relate to what Hope, Brandy, Terry & others are saying here.  June 15th will be the one-year mark for me.  I am dreading it, but I also keep thinking, "It's been a year and I'm still here; after a year without…"
Jun 13, 2016

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At 5:47am on December 13, 2016, fatherof3 said…

looks like we just switched places i moved from ark to reseda ca you moved from ca to ark if you had said something i would have waved as we passed by going in different directions . have a nice day john

At 11:44am on December 9, 2016, fatherof3 said…

and so sorry to see you here but it is a big help

At 11:43am on December 9, 2016, fatherof3 said…

suzy where in ark are you from i was born and raised until 15 yrs old in lonoke ark 

At 6:38pm on October 2, 2015, Patience (Diane) said…
Welcome to Widville, Suzy B. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the "help" link at the top of the page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.
 
 
 

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