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Tekwriter
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  • Tobaccoville, NC
  • United States
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Started this discussion. Last reply by Callie2 Aug 17. 6 Replies

I lost my Husband on May 3rd. It was Mothers day and my oldest son's birthday the week we held the funeral and the military internment. We basically just did nothing for the 4th of July which used to…Continue

 

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Tekwriter commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"It is not the insurance. I have that even with my Rottweilers. It i the finance company. I felt like I was strung along till the closing date and then it was off. But maybe I should call my congressmans office. They may be able to help.  Other…"
Nov 6
Tekwriter replied to Lostandlonely's discussion Widowhood in a Rural Area
"I am only 6 months out. I just had the worst birthday in my life without my dh. I pretty much cried most of the day. I too live in the country and not much i around. I am pretty sure most of my friend are tired of hearing how bad it hurts. but it…"
Nov 6
Tekwriter commented on DIVA70's blog post HOLIDAY JITTERS!
"I am at six month today. I agree we do not want to do much. It is so painful."
Nov 3
Tekwriter commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"My mortgage fell through with the mortgage company because they do not have a letter from the military after assuring me from day 1, it would be fine a long as they verbally heard the information. Now the underwriters wouldn't accept and I have…"
Nov 3
Tekwriter commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"We have made plans to serve four Thanksgiving buffet style and on Christmas we are going to focus more on our faith. We are Episcopalian and have much emphasis on Advent."
Oct 30
Tekwriter commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"This has been such an awful weekend. The grief has been overwhelming again. I had been managing okay for the las 5 months and it seems to have started over again. This is so awful."
Oct 29
Tekwriter commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I am coming up on the 6 month anniversary of his passing two days before my birthday and just as we are moving into the new house. I realized this weekend I had not thrown away his toothbrush yet. I guess that will happen this weekend."
Oct 16
Tekwriter commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"It has been 6 months. Yesterday was awful. Cried on and off all day. Just thought of things all day that reminded me of him. Is this still normal?"
Oct 9
Tekwriter commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I will check and see when the next set of classes are. I had been waiting since May. They are not close together. If they are in the bad weather I won't drive, so we will see. I am not a new people person, which I guess is bad."
Oct 6
Tekwriter replied to Tekwriter's discussion Buying A House in the group Born in the 50s
"This is so true. The estate lawyer wanted us to wait, but we did not want the house to be sold, so we did what we wanted to do. It had been on the market for a while and had just been reduced. All of us loved it so, we just did it and we got it."
Oct 6
Tekwriter replied to Tekwriter's discussion Buying A House in the group Born in the 50s
"Well the first date was incorrect. It is actually the 31st. So far it is going well."
Oct 6
June 15 replied to Tekwriter's discussion May in the group Widowed in 2018
"I understand, home is my comfort place. Some days are better than others, but some days it’s hard to get out of bed. I just keep thinking this will pass."
Oct 5
Tess replied to Tekwriter's discussion Buying A House in the group Born in the 50s
"Tekwriter, as I responded in the other stream, all the best to you to you in your new house. I will say one thing in response to something someone posted here. Don't overthink it! You know what's best and financially sometimes these life…"
Oct 5
Tekwriter commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Hello all, I am buying a house right now and the paperwork is so overwhelming without my husband. I know he would have loved the house we chose and am sad he cannot be there. Of course if he were here we would not have needed to move so..... It is…"
Oct 5
Tekwriter replied to Tekwriter's discussion May in the group Widowed in 2018
"I am so sorry for your loss. My children are grown, they are hurting but at least they had time. "
Sep 17
JB replied to Tekwriter's discussion May in the group Widowed in 2018
"Hi Tekwriter, I am so sorry for your loss.  My husband passed away July 17th after a brief (3 week) illness so I, too, am new to this "club". Our worlds have been turned upside down.  I am "only" 57...although I feel…"
Sep 16

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At 11:47pm on July 5, 2018, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Tekwriter. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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