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Telynn
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carlthepro replied to Telynn's discussion How are you? in the group Widowed in 2019
"Telynn….we are all in the same boat so to speak. Try and stay busy...somehow you will get thru this Life is changed, not taken away.. On the mirror in my bathroom is a word I truly believe in.... ACCEPTANCE  we must accept what has…"
Oct 25, 2019
Telynn commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"I hope your husband's service gives you some comfort and that you have support around you.  My husband passed 2 months ago and his birthday was 2 weeks ago.  My kids and I decided to celebrate him.  To try and not concentrate on…"
Jun 5, 2019
Telynn replied to Melissa's discussion Where To Live in the group Widowed in 2019
"It is a scary time.  There are so many what ifs and things to worry about that you could never have planned for.  Try to take one day at a time.  The future is too broad and no one knows what it will hold.  If you just…"
Jun 4, 2019
Telynn commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"I feel like I could scream and never stop.  I hate how awful and sad I feel. I am talking to people but right now I just feel desperate to not hurt so much.  I really miss my husband and the grief process that we all are going through is…"
May 28, 2019
Telynn replied to Telynn's discussion How are you? in the group Widowed in 2019
"Hi Bill.  I am sorry for the loss of your wife Cyndi.  I am glad to hear that you don't feel quite as insane.  I cannot think of my husband's last days.  They are so incredibly painful.  Even writing that makes me…"
May 21, 2019
BillDrums replied to Telynn's discussion How are you? in the group Widowed in 2019
"Cyndi died from a heart attack in December.  5 1/2 months later I want to say I am doing OK but I don't really believe that. I no longer feel every day like I'm going to lose my mind and I don't spend my days sobbing anymore. I…"
May 21, 2019
Telynn commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"I read a writing by a man who lost his wife and he wrote about all the adjustments we now have to make.  How everything from our identity, our goals and dreams,  our sense of security and safety, our passions have all been upended and…"
May 19, 2019
Telynn added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2019
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These "special days" are so hard.  My husband's birthday is this week and the third important date since he died.  I have made plans for the weekend to try and have something to focus on but his birthday is Wednesday so I am not sure that will even help.  I know I will go to the cemetery.  That seems to be easier to do now but who knows?  I find that I have no idea how I am going to respond to anything.  I think I am making a bit of progress and then find myself crying all day.  I have accepted…See More
May 19, 2019
Telynn commented on widowedgeekmom's blog post Redefined by others...
"That would have really hurt.  I am sorry that was done to you.  I do not agree that they should have moved you.  So very insensitive.  "
May 11, 2019
Telynn replied to Ozzy turtle's discussion 3 MONTHS AFTER in the group Widowed in 2019
"I am still in a fog which is a blessing because I don't feel like anything around me is quite real.  I keep thinking that he will walk into the room I'm in and I wish that with my whole being.  I just said the other day that…"
May 7, 2019
Telynn commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"I commented on your page Erika.  I am still figuring out this site.  I just wanted you to know that my heart grieves deeply too and I am reaching out to you."
May 7, 2019
Pualili221 left a comment for Telynn
"Telynn  So sorry for your loss; all of our losses on this site. There really are no words, not enough words to describe what we are all going through. I, myself am still trying to process everything and it’s been a little over two months.…"
May 4, 2019
Telynn commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"I am just joining and honestly feel like I want to throw up.  I lost my husband April1 and can't believe I am in this position.  It seems so unreal and I seem so lost.  Just can't believe he is gone."
May 4, 2019
Patience left a comment for Telynn
"Welcome to Widville, Telynn.  I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that…"
May 3, 2019

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At 5:55pm on May 15, 2019, Erika said…

Hi I’m doing ok yesterday was a bad day . Cried most of the day . Today my daughter had a full panic/anxiety attack and I called the ambulance! I’m bedside myself with worry she is now on her way home with her husband . 

At 6:50pm on May 7, 2019, Erika said…

Hi Telynn my heart just breaks for you! I too lost my husband suddently to a heart attack he passed in his sleep. I'm sure we could be a good support to each other. 

At 3:57pm on May 4, 2019, Pualili221 said…

Telynn 

So sorry for your loss; all of our losses on this site. There really are no words, not enough words to describe what we are all going through. I, myself am still trying to process everything and it’s been a little over two months. The best I can say is take good care of yourself. I haven’t been doing such a good job and now have been sick for two and half weeks. My body just gave in and I’m still trying to get over being sick. Allow yourself to cry and feel the hurt, pain, anger just try not to let it consume your thoughts. We are all here for each other.

At 8:14pm on May 3, 2019, Patience said…

Welcome to Widville, Telynn.  I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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