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TheEDCZone replied to JK (OK)'s discussion Having a hard time taking my wife off of accounts, etc...Is anyone else having trouble? Is it important?
"My darling wife Lisa passed on the 24th Jan 2019 to Stage 4 Breast Cancer & Metatastic Brain Tumours , yes it is still really RAW, I have started to close off her banks accounts & Super account, she didn't have a lot there anyway.…"
Mar 12
TheEDCZone replied to frankenpickle's discussion Did your pets help you with your loss? Did THEY need YOUR help?
"My wife Lisa and I decided that we would get a cat for the kids and me in October 2018, our little Rosey knew something was going on and would curl up next to Lisa when she was asleep in bed, when my wife went away on holiday with our kids in Dec…"
Mar 7
TheEDCZone replied to Rich's discussion How long have you been on the Widowed Village forums?
"For me it is still Raw, my wife Lisa passed on the 24th Jan 2019 due to Stage 4 Breast Cancer and Metastatic Brain, we were married for 22 years. I tried to register for this site a week or two after she had passed but didn't receive an email…"
Mar 7
TheEDCZone replied to Mrs Bear's discussion Having to say the "W" word
"Hi Mrs Bear, I lost my darling wife Lisa a little over a month ago to stage 4 Breast Cancer & Metastatic Brain Tumours , we were married for 22 years, I was on a Careers Pension looking after her and I am now on a Bereavement Pension and my…"
Mar 7
TheEDCZone replied to newlife's discussion Staying in the marital home or moving elsewhere?
"My wife Lisa and I bought a house with her parents to help them out, so we own half the house each. We have been in the house for 4 years, last year both my wife and I decided to build a house to be a family again, the builders are amazing and tried…"
Feb 14
TheEDCZone commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"My Wife Lisa of 22 years passed away on the 24th Jan 2019, after loosing her battle to Breast Cancer and Brain Tumours."
Feb 13
TheEDCZone replied to NoLongerInBergenJC's discussion OK, I have to ask this....(true confession time)
"My screen name comes from my business, original it stood for Every Day Carry, but my late wife invested in me and my business it changed to the Elevated Drone Control Zone. I’m a commercial Drone Pilot"
Feb 13
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for TheEDCZone
"Soaring Spirits International has partnered with First Light Widowed Association, an organization for widowed people in Australia, to provide a forum for our Aussie widows to connect. Here's a link to that group page here in the…"
Feb 13
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for TheEDCZone
"Welcome to Widville, TheEDCZone. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions…"
Feb 13
Mrs. L. left a comment for TheEDCZone
"I read your profile and your wife's journey with chills for she and you have been through.  It is with a heavy heart that I read all the chemo and treatments that she endured only to lose the battle.  She did not walk alone, as you…"
Feb 13
TheEDCZone replied to soulmate's discussion If you could choose one song to express how you feel after the death of your spouse what would it be?
"For me it would be  "Always With Me, Always With You" by Joe Satriani, and "(Everything I Do) I Do It for You" by Bryan Adams which was our Wedding Waltz song. "
Feb 13
TheEDCZone replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"Jill, I am turning 44 in Dec this year (2019), I lost my wife of 22 years 3 weeks ago (24th Jan 2019). Lisa would be turning 50 in Sep of this year.My wife wrote me a letter awhile back stating that she didn't want me to be alone, and to find…"
Feb 13
TheEDCZone replied to NoLongerInBergenJC's discussion OK, I have to ask this....(true confession time)
"NoLongerInBergenJC my wife had Breast Cancer that moved to her brain and in the last 13 months she was alive she would tell me that I had done nothing for her in the 21-22 years we have been married, even though I cooked for her & the kids,…"
Feb 13
TheEDCZone replied to Next to B/8's discussion Favorite number
"My wife Lisa's favourite number was 13, her birth date, she was also partial to 11:11 on the clock and made a wish all the time, she would even wait to 11:11am to buy our lotto ticket. Going to miss that. "
Feb 12
TheEDCZone replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Every one,My wife Lisa of 22 years, was diagnosed with Breast Cancer in September 2016, she was responding to treatment and looked like she might beat it, she had no sign of cancer in her breasts or lymph nods. This came to a crashing halt on the…"
Feb 12

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At 11:55am on February 13, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Soaring Spirits International has partnered with First Light Widowed Association, an organization for widowed people in Australia, to provide a forum for our Aussie widows to connect. Here's a link to that group page here in the Village:

http://widowedvillage.org/group/first-light-widowed-association

At 11:51am on February 13, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, TheEDCZone. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and Chat Room for conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.

At 6:37am on February 13, 2019, Mrs. L. said…

I read your profile and your wife's journey with chills for she and you have been through.  It is with a heavy heart that I read all the chemo and treatments that she endured only to lose the battle.  She did not walk alone, as you were by her side and painfully watched and prayed that this is the "last" treatment and she would be okay.  I especially noted about you combing/washing her hair.  I had cancer in 1990 and my husband would wash my hair and watch it fall out.  I am sorry to say that he passed in May 2016.  In my experience I will never get over losing him and I hope and pray for "you".  All the support in the world will never ease your pain of your loss of your loving wife.  Perhaps, I do not word it correctly.  I pray for you.  . 

 
 
 

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