"I have a question about taking our deceased spouse's off utilities, property deeds, titles, car & home insurance, ect. Is it really necessary or mandated that any of this must be done or in a certain time frame? "
"Good morning Ren. I'm sorry for your loss. It's 8 months for me. I just started back to work the first of this month. I wake up at 3am every morning. I've always done that, but I used to snuggle up with my…"
"Robin, I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband has been gone for 8 months. My husband was diagnosed one year before he died. He was diagnosed accidentally when he went in for an emergency surgery. We spent the next year…"
"My husband has been gone 8 months today. It doesn't seem possible that so much time has passed. I've cleaned out his closet and dresser. I have not cleaned out his night stand. I thought I was ready to sale…"
"It will be 8 months on Saturday. I can and would sit here without doing anything. Just staring off in space. I feel like I'm waiting for something, but I don't know what. I have gone as long as three weeks without seeing…"
"My front tooth broke in half on the Tuesday before Thanksgiving. I looked at it in the bathroom mirror and passed out. felt dizzy, was able to sit down right before I passed out. My dentist fixed a temp crown on Wednesday before Thanksgiving.…"
"Thanks for starting this sub-group. I was with my husband for 25 years, married for 22. He was 18 years older than I am. I had my children when I was 18 & 21. I married my husband when I was 30. There was no such…"
"It's almost 8 months for me. I have pictures of him in the house hanging or sitting on shelves. I have commissioned an oil painting of him to hang. My husband sang so we have lots of videos of him. I do look at them and…"
"It has been six months. I can go out and eat and visit with others. That's fine, I have a good time. I'm ready to go home. Then I spend the rest of the evening rehashing the evening in my head, alone. "
"Hi, Laurie, sorry for the loss of your husband. My husband passed in May 2015 from cancer. I was 53 and he was 70 at the time of his death. My daughter and granddaughter made Thanksgiving and they brought everyone over to my house.…"
Thyme, July 6th was my 5 month mark it was a rough weekend. I'm glad my post gave you some comfort because I don't know why we are compelled to do the things we do, but I gave up free will a long time ago and was enjoying the ride with Damian. If writing that post was meant for you to see, than mission accomplished :D Many blessings sweetie...and remember. He, Baxter will always be there, he will always be a part of you, in your heart, your soul and your everyday thoughts....
Welcome to Widville, Thyme. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.