"I'm finding it harder at nearly 9 months out, and with his birthday, our wedding anniversary and anniversary of our meeting prior to the anniversary of his passing, it's going to be rough. And yet I start university today to study…"
"I've had a small amount of Ian's ashed incorporated into a memory glass, and into a small amphora-type Christmas decoration. Half I'll keep to scatter in Cork, Ireland with half of his father - Ian never got to scatter his…"
"Kilikana - a sad welcome. It helps to know you're not alone. I lost my husband June 14, 10 days after our first wedding aniversary as a result of 3 months illness from surgical complications. I'm 38, he was 46 - and like…"
"I've not commented in ages, but have to chime in on the hoarding. My step-dad hoarded, so when he passed 4 years ago my sis and I had his and Mum's farm to clear (Mum passed six months prior - 2008 was also a crap year). Turns…"
"Anya - I don't post much, but a sorry welcome to you. I lost my husband on June 14 after heart-surgery gone wrong, leaving me with an 18 month old. Sadly there are a lot of people who get it here.
I heard from a couple of…"
"Brandywine - another loving the sound of your house!!! I'm not worried about my mortgage, either. I got into the property market well before the bubble (which we still have going strong in South Australia), so I've got a…"
"I had a realisation last night. I was smelling Ian's pillow, and the scent is fading and I thought 2 months is really quick. Then I have to remember he was hospitalised for 3 months prior. Sometimes I feel I'm running on…"
Welcome Trifectagirl: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
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