"Made a decision. Something that hasn't come easy since I lost Sandi. I made one about 6 months ago about my car. Sandi found our CRV to be very uncomfortable in the last year, so we went looking for a car. I was looking…"
"I am blessed with security, but without my love Sandi, it feels so empty. I know that sounds so selfish because so many others have to deal with loss of their person, finances and security. I am working on thinking positive about my…"
"This second year is really kicking my but. Again, thanks for all the support. I am very lucky to be in a good spot financially and health wise. And although three of the 4 kids live 12 to 15 hours away by car or plane, they have…"
"Thank you everyone for your suggestions and strategies. Is it sad that I just microwave frozen dinners? I cook a lot for Sandi, but cooking for one is such a drag. I had something else to say but can't remember. Again,…"
"I don't know what to do. It's been 15 months since Sandi died, but it's been 4 years and 5 months since this devastation started when she was diagnosed with medistatic breast disease that manifested in brain cancer. I am constantly…"
"Sara wrote on her blog about watching the Netflix series Dead to Me.
I binged the whole season. "Two women meet in a grief group, both widows" Crazy twists and turns.
Her post is more about reaching out and trying to…"
You are right, it just is what it is. I know bad things happen to good people. I guess it is (was) my frustration that I could fix thing thing that was taking the love of my life away. Sandi always told me that's…"
"Half in the bag tonight. Just missing my girl so much. I know I shouldn't be self medicating but nothing else helps. Meds make me feel numb, need to start a routine to get out of this hole. it just sucks. I've…"
"Ultra2015 here (Ron actually)
Ultra2015 is actually the model and year of the Harley we bought in October. Took a few short rides and by June Sandi had brain cancer from the original breast cancer she fought for 18 years. Haven't…"
"My Sandi’s Birthday is April 28th but she loved it so much she celebrated all month. We called it her Birthday Season. She could never understand why people didn’t like their birthday. It’s the day you came into this world and she…"
"Jan. So very sorry for your loss. I know the comfort a pet can give in these times. I wish I had words that would comfort you. Just know there are many of us out here on the same journey. I have been in one of those very low places myself lately.…"
"Thank you everyone for sharing on this page. It is so helpful to hear other stories. I lost Sandi after three years fighting MBD (after 18 years of treatments for Brest cancer). Those last three years were so terrible for her. She…"
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