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Ultra2015
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  • Destin, FL
  • United States
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Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"LP. The hospice staff and volunteers that came to our home to help me with Sandis care were wonderful caring people. Your understanding of what they are facing and going through I am sure is so comforting. peace"
Wednesday
Ultra2015 replied to Momof3's discussion Any one from Central Florida region?
"Momof3. The group section has many groups for newly widowed, age range and other specifics.  Take a look.  I am up in the panhandle.  We moved here full time 5 years ago and I lost my wife to cancer 28 months ago.  We were…"
Mar 31
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Tomorrow starts Sandi's birthday month.  Her actual birthday is April 28 but she celebrated all month, and it happens that this is the 28th month since I lost her.  She just loved feeling that April was her month and a perfect day on…"
Mar 31
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Book girl. You can say anything here. We know the pain and the loss. Come back often or just read the post. hugs. Peace. "
Mar 29
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Thanks for the distraction everyone. I’m just zoned out. We had to close the homeless program I’ve been volunteering at 3 days a week so the one thing that kept me connected is gone for now. Thankfully my daughter is here with me working…"
Mar 28
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Good to hear from everyone. I’m in the panhandle of Florida. Most of the cases in Florida are further East and south. My daughter left DC to come here with me. My son and his wife are in London. I’m concerned about them. It is true I…"
Mar 16
Ultra2015 replied to Tess's discussion Misery loves company in the group Born in the 50s
"I hear that Tess. I’m just ambivalent about everything. I’ve tried to even go on a couple of lunch dates but it’s exhausting. Telling and retelling stories that my Sandi and I shared with ease. We were very connected in every way.…"
Feb 28
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Love the pillow. We never made a big deal over Valentines but it was a day that passes with memories of love and jokes and kisses and candy. "
Feb 13
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"25 months and my mind keeps going to... oh I have to call Sandi. No she’s dead. Damn. just got John Polos book "
Jan 31
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Can someone invent an App that sends out your persons obituary to all the internet world and solicitors. I got an email the other day reminding Sandi about her annual mammogram. Really, she died from metastatic breast disease two years ago and a…"
Jan 16
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Sorry. Thought I posted this last week ??? Tomorrow we had Sandi’s last memorial service two years ago in her home town. Damn this one just hit me today. Never know when something is going to send you spinning. "
Jan 5
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Interesting conversations about beds. I kept our bed. A queen. I laid on Sans side and held her hand in the hospital bed we fit beside our bed. I would be on her side of the bed to hold her. Now I sleep on my side with her pillow wrapped up with me…"
Jan 5
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Interesting conversations about beds. I kept our bed. A queen. I laid on Sans side and held her hand in the hospital bed we fit beside our bed. I would be on her side of the bed to hold her. Now I sleep on my side with her pillow wrapped up with me…"
Dec 28, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Trees up. Haven’t put any ornaments on it. Don’t want to. Trying to find joy in the season but it’s just not there without Sandi. Went to a Christmas party with a platonic friend. Need more. Fuck this. "
Dec 20, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Two years Monday. I can’t stop crying. Fuck. "
Dec 13, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I have Sandi’s Beautiful perfume in the bathroom right where it has always been along with all her lotions and creams. I even buy the same shampoo she used so I can smell it. It’s what I used when I washed her hair when she…"
Nov 24, 2019

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At 6:47pm on December 7, 2018, Patience said…


Welcome to Widville, Ultra2015. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and Chat Room for conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.

 
 
 

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