"No worries Tess. I feel the same way as I head into 2 years Dec 16th. I’ve posted about a lyric by the Lumimeers , I don’t want to live this way but I don’t want to die “. Kinda says it for me. Another thing hit me last…"
"Hi Jim. your story and response are very familiar to me. It will be 2 years for me December 16th and I still find myself wondering what I’m doing. Sad, lonely and heartbroken is where I am most of the time. This group has helped a lot.…"
"So just went through my contacts on my iPad and such. Our phones and iPads were linked so I have/had all of Sandi’s. I read somewhere you should do that now and then. So gone are all of Sandis doctors, therapists, nurses, home care, and…"
"Thanks for the ideas on the picture boards. My daughters are going to help me. The background picture on my phone was making me anxious. How do I take that off. I was looking through the many pictures I have of the Gulf.…"
"I have had some new experiences or thoughts lately about my grief journey. I usually think that I am now 19 months out from Sandi's death. But as the initial fog has lifted through this second year I have come to realize that that…"
no such thing as a downer here. Keep posting and getting out whatever you need to. I have found this group to be the one place where people do just get it and that is such a comfort.
Take care. Hang in there
"Thanks for the feedback. Its still a mind blower to think about dating but I've decided that I just have to let things happen and that's that. I will always miss my girl, but she gone and I can't do anything about that.…"
"Took a look here a while ago because of the confusion or inner conflict I guess would be more accurate about dating. I am 18 months out from losing the love of my life. She fought breast cancer for 18 years, the last three with…"
"18 months. The past few weeks have been better. I’ve been doing a few more social things but it makes me tired. My older brother has been visiting for a week. That has been nice but I find myself so tired. He’s gone to visit some friends…"
"Roxi I agree. I’m trying to find a place for the grief of losing my best friend, lover and partner. I am less overwhelmed but sad , lonely and heartbroken. Hoping to find that place soon.
Peace everyone. "
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