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Ultra2015
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  • Destin, FL
  • United States
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Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Can someone invent an App that sends out your persons obituary to all the internet world and solicitors. I got an email the other day reminding Sandi about her annual mammogram. Really, she died from metastatic breast disease two years ago and a…"
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Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Sorry. Thought I posted this last week ??? Tomorrow we had Sandi’s last memorial service two years ago in her home town. Damn this one just hit me today. Never know when something is going to send you spinning. "
Jan 5
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Interesting conversations about beds. I kept our bed. A queen. I laid on Sans side and held her hand in the hospital bed we fit beside our bed. I would be on her side of the bed to hold her. Now I sleep on my side with her pillow wrapped up with me…"
Jan 5
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Interesting conversations about beds. I kept our bed. A queen. I laid on Sans side and held her hand in the hospital bed we fit beside our bed. I would be on her side of the bed to hold her. Now I sleep on my side with her pillow wrapped up with me…"
Dec 28, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Trees up. Haven’t put any ornaments on it. Don’t want to. Trying to find joy in the season but it’s just not there without Sandi. Went to a Christmas party with a platonic friend. Need more. Fuck this. "
Dec 20, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Two years Monday. I can’t stop crying. Fuck. "
Dec 13, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I have Sandi’s Beautiful perfume in the bathroom right where it has always been along with all her lotions and creams. I even buy the same shampoo she used so I can smell it. It’s what I used when I washed her hair when she…"
Nov 24, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Coming here to write out the fog and feelings in my head has been very helpful. Especially because reading others responses keeps me from thinking I’m going crazy. Sad, lonely and heartbroken is ok and everyone here gets it. Peace and hugs"
Nov 24, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I've been back in the fog for the past two weeks.  I am now into month 23, December 16 will be two years and the fog has returned, damn.  Some days I was feeling ok and could go out in the yard, do things without having to force…"
Nov 23, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"No worries Tess. I feel the same way as I head into 2 years Dec 16th. I’ve posted about a lyric by the Lumimeers , I don’t want to live this way but I don’t want to die “. Kinda says it for me. Another thing hit me last…"
Nov 14, 2019
Ultra2015 replied to Jim's discussion Just an introduction in the group Born in the 50s
"Hi Jim. your story and response are very familiar to me. It will be 2 years for me December 16th and I still find myself wondering what I’m doing. Sad, lonely and heartbroken is where I am most of the time. This group has helped a lot.…"
Nov 12, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"So just went through my contacts on my iPad and such. Our phones and iPads were linked so I have/had all of Sandi’s. I read somewhere you should do that now and then. So gone are all of Sandis doctors, therapists, nurses, home care, and…"
Nov 9, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I am so sorry. Such heart break. sending prayers for peace ❤️"
Nov 4, 2019
Ultra2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Two years December 16th and I feel like I’m in a black hole that just never ends. "
Oct 28, 2019
Ultra2015 replied to Mary's discussion Just mad at the world today in the group Born in the 50s
"Sorry I missed this. "
Oct 25, 2019
Ultra2015 replied to Mary's discussion Just mad at the world today in the group Born in the 50s
"No worries about complaining here. There are days that just suck. So many reminders and nowhere to go with the pain. Glad you came here  wishing you better days. Peace"
Oct 1, 2019

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At 6:47pm on December 7, 2018, Patience said…


Welcome to Widville, Ultra2015. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and Chat Room for conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.

 
 
 

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