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Viola
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  • Elkton, MD
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Um No Title

Started this discussion. Last reply by SweetMelissa2007 Apr 23. 5 Replies

Hi My name is Denise.  My husband of 20 years legally, but 28 almost 29 together passed away 3 years ago March 15, 2015 and this last month the waves have been hitting hard.  As with everyone, guess…Continue

 

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Viola replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Thank you for posting.  I have been hanging on the fringes myself.  Your post gave me the courage to write.  My loss was my husband 3 years and 5 months ago.  And I still feel that way.  I can only say that I guess, no I…"
Sep 3
Viola replied to Riley's discussion I Challenge You! in the group Born in the 60s
"Wow great idea and some of mine are similar. 1. The way he said my name. 2.  How he tried to ignore me. 3. Holding his hand. 4. Sitting at the beach surf fishing. 5. Hikes in our nearby park. 6. How he danced to Motown. 7.  Slim Jims and…"
Sep 2
SweetMelissa2007 replied to Viola's discussion Um No Title
"Hi Viola, Grief is so draining - mostly the anger & impatience from it going on & on & on - like tumbling around sometimes like Fight Club in thrashing about in the unknown darkness of an abyss ...Its common as well as keeps a…"
Apr 23
Viola replied to vintage56(barb)'s discussion the little things
"I just miss hearing him say my name.  No one ever said it the way he did.  I could tell exactly what kind of mood he was in when he said it.  It was fun to have him finish my sentence or he mine.  So many times one of us would…"
Apr 23
Viola replied to Viola's discussion Um No Title
"I know there is no timeline, I just need to talk with others that have been through this.  I am not really confused maybe just back at my angry place.  The reality is really setting in.  Thank you for your words.  And I am here…"
Apr 23
Viola replied to Viola's discussion Um No Title
"I know that grief has become and will continue to be one of my constant companions.  I just wish I could understand all my triggers.  I know that is asking for a lot.  I get a triggers will be his birthday, our anniversary or events…"
Apr 23
Callie2 replied to Viola's discussion Um No Title
"Hi Denise, Sorry for your loss and for what you’re experiencing right now. You have come to the right place, everyone here has had a loss too so we understand. You can even start a blog if you just want to let out some of your feelings. There…"
Apr 23
SweetMelissa2007 replied to Viola's discussion Um No Title
"(((Denise))) They happen b/c grief is still present - precious memories make us yearn for everything about our deceased loved one as well as our old life ... The one thing about grief is deciding what to do about it - there is no charted or linear…"
Apr 20
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Um No Title

Hi My name is Denise.  My husband of 20 years legally, but 28 almost 29 together passed away 3 years ago March 15, 2015 and this last month the waves have been hitting hard.  As with everyone, guess beyond our regular triggers, important dates and such, we never know why.  I felt I needed to chat. I have seen a Grief Counselor in the past.  Just can't quite get a handle on this.  Not sure how this site works, but I know when my  husband was battling cancer the Cancer Chat site was of immense…See More
Apr 20
eliana left a comment for Viola
"Welcome to Widville, Viola. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you…"
Apr 20

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At 12:31am on April 20, 2018, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Viola. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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