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WEROK
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WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hello Tapevad, I am so sorry for the loss of your husband.  It will be four years in May for me.  I come here occasionally to reassure myself that I'm not the only one who still has meltdowns.  The waves of grief have become a…"
Jan 29
WEROK replied to Noelene T's discussion Coping with yearning for dead husband in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Noelene, my heart goes out to you. Please be as gentle and kind to yourself as you would be in comforting your best friend. If you've never read the reading about grief waves, please google it. For me it is true. The grief comes in waves. At…"
Nov 29, 2018
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Cee, I can’t reply to your email but I do want to hear from you. I don’t have your direct email."
Oct 1, 2018
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Cee, I've not seen another Pennsylvania person in this group in a long time.  I live in central PA and we have a Perry County Fair in August that I usually attend.  I don't remember ever attending the Kutztown…"
Jun 26, 2017
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"FYI, in spite of the fact I don't post often, I read your posts every day.  You help me and I wish I could provide words of comfort and real hugs to each of you when you need them most.     "
Apr 8, 2017
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Bless all of you.  Just when I think I am the only one who can't "get a grip" you let me know I am normal. Today I went to a funeral for a friend and sat in the car and cried my eyes out.  So I went flower…"
Apr 8, 2017
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"The one-year mark is behind me. It is rare to have a day that I don't cry but I do cry less. And the fear that suffocated me has subsided.....well, at least lessened. I think I'm more accepting of my new reality. I still don't like it…"
Jun 17, 2016
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi Gail, I am Jeanne.  We chat by email and I am your Facebook friend.  Ron was diagnosed August 2014 and died May 2015 = for me, nine months of being scared to death and disappointed and filled with dread to this past nine months…"
Jan 31, 2016
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"A very open and honest friend of mine just pointed out to me that I can't talk about my husband and the pain of our journey that started with his lung cancer diagnosis without crying but I can talk to another who is facing the fear and…"
Jan 31, 2016
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Oh my, so many of these posts resonate with me.  I don't want to get rid of the home we shared or any of my husband's things unless they go to someone who wants them because they bring warm memories.  I know I should be sharing…"
Jan 31, 2016
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Nice gray-haired women, my system is called Iris and it is sold exclusively by Lowe's. I am so thankful our son got it and taught me how to use it. It has many features you can add but for now it is so nice to be able to turn on lights and be…"
Jan 7, 2016
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I am 66, too, and I was very uncomfortable alone. Our (not willing to only say "my") son got a system that utilizes my iPhone. So far, I can turn on various lights, detect motion, and be alerted if someone would try to enter our/my home.…"
Jan 7, 2016
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Just my opinion but I say reach out. I don't feel that it is a reasonable expectation to expect others to read my mind. None of my closest friends has been on this journey. I'm on it and I don't even know what will help at times."
Jan 4, 2016
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Welcome nice gray-haired women. I lost my husband on May 3rd after 45 years of marriage. We met when we were 15 and 17. I, too, have never been alone. This is so incredibly hard. My emotions are unpredictable. Just when I think I'm doing okay,…"
Jan 3, 2016
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Although I haven't commented in quite a while, I'm still reading your posts and learning.  One of these days, I'm going to compile some of your words of wisdom in one easily accessible place.  My husband and I went…"
Dec 3, 2015
WEROK commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Correction:  My friend's daughter had four young children.  So unfair.  For relaxation, has anyone tried those new coloring books for adults?  I know they aren't for me.  Instead of relaxing me, I'm sure they…"
Nov 10, 2015

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At 11:23am on July 21, 2015, wannabmartha said…

So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others.  Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help. Below is a link that you might find helpful as a new member.

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