"ah.... I totally get that. We are both in the place where we want to build a new life for ourselves but don't now HOW to make that happen. Grief counseling doesn't help with that.
Are there Meetup groups locally to…"
I don't think it's a matter of loving too much, it's more about not understanding to what depth the death of their spouse is going to affect their life. When a spouse dies, the surviving spouse loses not only the person but has…"