Hi, thank you for your comment. I think I am having a PTSD moment because I can't navigate around this site worth a darn right now. It took me almost 10 min to figure out how to comment back! I am a fan of goldfish as well, I like the flavor blasted cheddar ones the best. Too bad I don't have any, I'll have to stick to my gummy worms for now I guess.
I am trying to get my payment processed for camp widow in Toronto. I don't know if I am as ready as I thought, but need to do something before I go any farther backwards.
Thanks so much for the friend request. I know I've been so busy trying to get my business up and running and get a life of some kind back, and it makes me feel bad when I don't get to check this site very often....kind of feel like I'm abandoning my friends, but that's the thing about this website. You can leave for awhile, if you need to or have to, or need a break from getting too emotional with everyone's stories, but can come right back when you need it. I meant what I said, there is definitely a need for people with your spirit. It helps those that go month after month and just can't seem to find any reason what-so-ever to want to find a life again. As we know, grief is different for everyone and my heart aches for each and every person. What helped me, enormously, was Rudy and I talked about it many times in our marriage, and we always told each other we would never want the other to curl up in the corner and stop living. That if anything ever happened, we would want life to go on for whichever one of us was left. It isn't easy, especially the first year, but all the talks we had helped me get through the rough times, and still does. So keep that spirit and I think you'll help others want to work hard to get through those rough times and live again. God Bless!
Welcome Weaxie: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".