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Widowette
  • Female
  • Duluth, MN
  • United States
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Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"GG Rose ~ hello neighbor!  I have a hard time finding women who are also widows to make friends with.  Wish you lived in my city ~ would love to have a "cup of anything" with someone who understand the language of widowhood....do…"
Feb 26, 2016
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"GG Rose ~ I can imagine how this preparation would make one regress - I am so sorry!  I have been in our home for 35 years and if I had to sell it, for whatever reason, I don't know how I would make it through.  Yet, some days the…"
Feb 23, 2016
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"I am certain I have lost my mind!  Hello, ladies!  Thank you, CrazyWidow, for checking in and for all of you who have shared your heart.  I have been writing here for hours and I keep copying/pasting those words to an email to myself…"
Feb 23, 2016
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"Dear Callie2!  Congratulations!  Good job not getting bit!  You obviously read the instructions!  When I first had to perform these tasks, I was resentful and would cry - sometimes I still cry, but I am not resentful any longer.…"
Mar 14, 2015
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"Good Day to you both, Colleen51 and Callie2!  I have learned so many new skills since my husband passed away - I say "passed away" because that phrase helps me.  I find the "d" word, harsh - I don't like it.…"
Mar 14, 2015
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"ooops....I meant to say, "to fight rather than to accept how we feel , is non productive"...it needs to be okay, how we feel - it doesn't matter that other women have moved on in life, that is their story and it is okay for them.…"
Mar 11, 2015
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"Colleen 51, my heart goes out to you!  I am so sorry for the passing of your husband!  I also want "out", as you describe your desire for the same.  My living situation is very different than yours, as my loved ones were not…"
Mar 11, 2015
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Oct 23, 2013
mslexigal left a comment for Widowette
"Thank you Widowette.  I would so love to have someone to talk to.  I am usually online all day.  I am an Librarian so I use the Internet all the time."
Oct 23, 2013
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Hello all ~ This is so hard, I am 5 years out and feel so lost.  Maybe I can make a few friends here..."
Oct 23, 2013
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"Hi to you, mslexigal!  I am so sorry for your loss, it is sooooo hard.  I am one of those who after all this time is still struggling and feeling so lost.  I hear what you are saying about no one understanding the pain and tears.…"
Oct 23, 2013
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"HUGS to you, Going to Make It, as well ~ it is the children, young and adult alike who are harmed.  Without realizing it, their elders have modeled behavior that subconsciously, has taught them to be unloving.  Suddenly, my adult step…"
Sep 11, 2013
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"I must share that I can't seem to find my place in life.  I miss my husband so much.  I feel so lost.  I am so lonely, I swear I had no idea loneliness could be an actual physical pain.  UGH.  It probably wouldn't…"
Sep 10, 2013
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"Travelingirl ~ Thank you for the empathy...it isn't difficult, it is devastating and I can't seem to move past loosing our kids and granddaughter - my inlaws and my family of origin.  As if loosing my husband isn't enough pain.…"
Jun 27, 2013
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"Oh yes, I haven't functioned in month's.  It's 7:30 pm and I am forcing myself to get dressed.  I can't seem to hold it together.  Prayer, Oceangirl!"
Jun 27, 2013
Widowette commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2008
"Obviously I figured out how to post :o)  I must have gone over the 400 limit in my initial posts and that is why my comment was not added.  I pray each of you have peace and kindness in your day."
Jun 24, 2013

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At 9:21am on October 23, 2013, mslexigal said…

Thank you Widowette.  I would so love to have someone to talk to.  I am usually online all day.  I am an Librarian so I use the Internet all the time.

At 2:38pm on April 24, 2013, judy said…

So sorry for your loss Widowette --- please join us in chat - sorry you are here but glad you joined the most supportive group of people you will know.

At 8:30pm on March 23, 2013, onmyown said…

So sorry for your loss. I know you will find a lot of support here.

At 8:02pm on March 23, 2013, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Widowette. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.  

Here's a good place to start: Basic Site Info  Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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