"Most widows don't take nearly as long as I have to get better. Just want to remind you how pointless it is to hold ourselves up to some bogus "model grief" script or timetable. Our readjustment takes as long as it…"
"Thanks for sharing this, Athena53. My soulmate was also 14 years my senior and we too lived very much "in the moment." We all can gain much from integrating all those parts of our personalities and embracing the future best we…"
Welcome to Widville, WolfgalVal. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
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