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deaf widow commented on Wondering's blog post Another First
"Hugs to you, ((((Wondering)))),  and to your pet, ((((Toby))).  I lost my hubby right after last Christmas due to cancer.  He was a chaplain, too, who would visit people at the hospital.  He was a Christian biker.  I still…"
Aug 22, 2016
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Another First

August 11, 2016 was a sad day for me.  Sad because this is my first wedding anniversary without Dan’l.  Sad because it’s been over 6 months since he died and went to eternal life with God.  I still miss him terribly and always will, but thanks to the Lord, the pain is not as sharp, not as heavy, not unbearable.There will be more “firsts” to come – first holidays without him – first birthdays without him – first trip without him - first major decision without him.  Nevertheless I still feel…See More
Aug 17, 2016
Wondering commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Just commenting on the subject of support groups.  My husband died in February.  A few weeks after his memorial service, I went to a support group for an 8-week commitment.  I didn't really connect with anyone in the group, but…"
May 31, 2016
Wondering commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Lee, When did I feel up to and actually enjoy being around a large event - especially close friends and family... not yet and I don't know when I will. It's been about 4 months since Dan died.   I did go to a large event last weekend,…"
May 28, 2016
Wondering commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Sue - that's really the key... just keep breathing - in and out  - in and out - slowly and often - paying attention to each breath.  At least for me it's calming to do this and keeps me centered somehow. I got overly tired on the…"
May 3, 2016
Wondering commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Sue, So sorry you are sick and pray your sore throat will heal quickly.  You're smart to take care of yourself and get some rest... even in the midst feeling emotionally weak too.   Nieta, Sorry about your sister-in-law and hope you…"
Apr 24, 2016
Wondering commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Hi KayeL  - Well I'm thankful the weather has been mild in FL the last couple days, but I must get this air conditioner fixed tomorrow or I'll be sleeping in a motel tomorrow night!  Just another thing I'll need to miss work…"
Apr 24, 2016
Wondering commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Good evening all, I've been following the messages, but have not been able to comment until now.  Yesterday, Saturday, was pretty good for me... only a couple times of "in the car tears" but then I was pretty busy, taking care of…"
Apr 24, 2016
Wondering commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Sue: I too have decided not to make any big decisions right now... only those that can't wait due to finances or my health.... You have now had 3 major events on the high stress list... moving, new job and death... I think I would feel…"
Apr 16, 2016
Wondering commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"NoMoreComplete, I have just the opposite cooking problem in that my husband loved to cook, go to the grocery store and I only went into the kitchen to serve and clean.  I too am living out of the frozen section of the grocery store (when I can…"
Apr 10, 2016
Wondering commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Soccermom, "Thinking he might come home from the hospital"... I actually woke up in the middle of the night recently thinking "Oh, good, Dan will be home tomorrow.  I've really missed him."  And then in the next…"
Apr 4, 2016
Wondering commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"I did some flower gardening yard work today with a friend.  My husband Dan used to do all the yard work and flower planting... he did a beautiful job and loved doing it.  I don't really like doing it but I do like the results. My…"
Apr 2, 2016
Wondering commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"My husband Dan of 44 years died on Feb 3rd this year... I'm new to this site, and trying to find my "spot" but just wanted to make a comment.  Today I received a "letter" for my husband from a company offering him a…"
Mar 31, 2016
judy left a comment for Wondering
"Hi Wondering, Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.   Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask…"
Mar 26, 2016

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Another First

Posted on August 17, 2016 at 3:39pm 1 Comment

August 11, 2016 was a sad day for me.  Sad because this is my first wedding anniversary without Dan’l.  Sad because it’s been over 6 months since he died and went to eternal life with God.  I still miss him terribly and always will, but thanks to the Lord, the pain is not as sharp, not as heavy, not unbearable.

There will be more “firsts” to come – first holidays without him – first birthdays without him – first trip…

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At 5:12pm on March 26, 2016, judy said…

Hi Wondering,

Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.

 

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  Come in the chat room which is available 24/7 to you.  I look forward to getting to know you and support you through your journey.

 
 
 

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