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adoption1964
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  • Nicolaus, CA
  • United States
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Started this discussion. Last reply by adoption1964 Sep 18. 6 Replies

Hello, my name is Kim. I lost my loving husband to stage iv kidney cancer May 2, 2017. We were married 15 years. Our 16th wedding anniversary would have been 08/16/17. Everything happened so quickly.…Continue

 

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adoption1964 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 60s
"Thank you for the responses, this is quite comforting.  I can relate and have done many of the things you speak about here.  I have a therapist now been 4 times I think, cried 3 of the 4 the whole time.  She  is looking at me…"
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adoption1964 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 60s
"A question for those here in this group.  We were all born in the 60's; it is my understanding this generation really didn't show a lot of emotion ie: we don't cry in front of people.  Is this a misconception on my…"
Thursday
adoption1964 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"Hello, I have stayed away from this site for a while.  I guess I needed a short break.  Pretending for everything to be normal again.  We here all know are normal will never be the same. I read all the posts as they help me a lot to…"
Thursday
adoption1964 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"Here I am in month 5 of this loss, I am guessing eventually we stop counting days, weeks and months that our loved one's have passed.  This is still new and raw.  The other day I posted to FB what it was like to be a…"
Oct 3
adoption1964 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"Hi HelensRay, I live in the US wonder if I can't get those.  I did have a prescription however I couldn't mix it with the anxiety medication which I no longer take.  I don't feel the anxiety nearly as much as just the…"
Sep 27
adoption1964 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"I am going into my 5th month of widow head.  It was a hard journey when he was sick and now I have this journey by myself.  I apparently have the plague.  My family and friends are basically non existent.  Going through this…"
Sep 27
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adoption1964 commented on mls64 (Mike)'s blog post Role reversal,
"I would want him to be happy, keep our precious memories in his heart.  He is free to move forward in whatever way he comfortable.  I knew my husband didn't like being alone and always said we are not supposed be alone.  When we…"
Sep 18
adoption1964 replied to adoption1964's discussion New here
"Thank you for the kind words.  Yes you may pray for me.  Much appreciated. "
Sep 18
soulmate replied to adoption1964's discussion New here
"I am really sorry (You probably hear that a lot, everyone is sorry)  It is overwhelming those first few months-I don't need to tell you that. Do you have family? Friends and family members can be very helpful, they can't take the pain…"
Sep 17
Callie2 replied to adoption1964's discussion New here
"Kim, I am so sorry for your loss, I know it is so heartbreaking. Regretfully, there is really no way around the awful pain. We have to feel it for a while but I can tell you, the intensity does ease with time. The firsts are the hardest but…"
Sep 17
mls64 (Mike) replied to adoption1964's discussion New here
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Sep 16
adoption1964 replied to adoption1964's discussion New here
"Hi There, You are new to this as well.  You are correct our spouses would want us to keep going.  I know for sure Jack does. I know all the emotions you are going through.  Your wife's cancer went quick as well.  I…"
Sep 16
mls64 (Mike) replied to adoption1964's discussion New here
"Adoption, I'm sorry to hear. Know that you've come to a good place. I will be 11 weeks out this coming Monday. My wife passed July 3rd after a six-month battle with cancer. My first 9 weeks was jam-packed with emotion, fear, loneliness.…"
Sep 16

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At 5:42am on September 16, 2017, Patience (Diane) said…
Welcome to Widville, adoption1964. I'm so sorry for your loss, but glad that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the "help" link at the top of the page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. And the "chat room" is open 24/7.
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