"hello lori- lust my husband 2009. I am going to be fifty in july, yest i was telling my coworkers. they all started telling me how i should make an event out of it- have a big party or go on a cruise. I just kept saying no, i'm going to…"
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"susieg-I have been seeing a therapist since the day b4 my husband passed. i go once a month, some months are very connected to my loss, some not so much. Did u ever think it was part of your job on this earth to care for your husband and ease his…"
"Hi Arleen. Thanks for the friend request. Sorry we've become friends over such grievous circumstances but relieved to have found this place and people like you to help share the journey to the unknown places. It's not as scary :)
"susieg- you have me a little worried that you seem like you are going to carry our the suicide thing. are you getting any therapy help? i lost my husband 6/5/2009 so i can appreciate the feelings of loss of love that i will never find again. it…"
"hello shadow- lost me husband june 5,2009- which was also our daughter's 17th birthday. he was at hospice and i could not bear telling her when she got home from school so i had cake for her that night and did not tell her until after her…"
Hi Arleen. Thanks for the friend request. Sorry we've become friends over such grievous circumstances but relieved to have found this place and people like you to help share the journey to the unknown places. It's not as scary :)
I'm so very sorry for your loss, Arleen, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. You may want to venture into our Chat Room some time, too. I look forward to getting to know you here.