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Thought I'd drop by and share my birthday anniversary feelings today. I have found love again with David, born on Feb 4, like my late husband John.
Just had a look at photos and videos from John's 65th birthday party on Feb 4 last year while David is out. He looks so sweet, happy and frail. So many memories....I needed to look at those photos.
Meanwhile I'm taking David to the movies this afternoon - took him to dinner and a band Saturday night as part of the birthday…Continue
I have a smile on my face.
And it hasn't gone away for a couple of days.
On Saturday night I took the plunge into intimacy with a lovely man who had become a friend and I'm so glad I did:)
I believe he was sent into my life by John.
He has the same birthday - February 4 - which spooked me when I met him (though he is 62 - same age as me and 3 years younger than John).
He's living on a yacht which was one of John's dreams as an adventurous person before he became…
I'd always intended to scatter my husband John's funeral flowers at sea. His daughter took his ashes interstate so this was something I wanted to do. I thought it would happen when I'd fixed up the tinnie and trailer - but the most amazing opportunity came up last week that seemed a much better idea. And what happened in terms of a sign was extraordinary.
I was invited on a private trip to Sydney Harbour and back aboard a 200-seater ferry that normally cruises around the Brisbane…Continue
Does anyone further down the track than 5 months have any thoughts about how to stop the anger I feel towards relatives and a former close friend which kept me awake for a while last night and the other night too?
Tried to think about something else but just really stunned by the neglect by these people.
I will raise the issue at grief group next Wednesday but I guess the sadness has been overwhelmed by those angry feelings. I can't believe how uncaring people can be.