"WOW I feel like my new normal is a dark person too!! I thought it was just me...My date is July 20th still VERY new to me. I used to be a fun loving happy person..guess he took that with him when he went. I miss him daily!! …"
"My husband too was Army, 173rd airborne Vietnam. Didn't lose him there but did lose him to the Poison they sprayed on our guys while there (Agent Orange) Almost 3 months here. Just cleaned out closet today nothing smelled like…"
"Here is my tat first one (without wings) was done while he was still here, had him put the L on my wrist then had the purple heart put around it like a ribbon (Purple is the color of the cancer he had) then after he passed had the wings put…"
"I too miss all these thing about my Larry it has just been 2 months for me. I have had no nightmares or dreams for that matter. My doctor has me on mass dose of anti depressant that I could dream if I wanted too. But I need these…"
"Hi Barbara....what part of AZ are you in, how did your husband die? My husband died of complications from heart problems we didn't know he had. He was 62. He died 4/30/09 and I miss him every day more and more. I see you are recently a widow,…"
Hi Barbara....what part of AZ are you in, how did your husband die? My husband died of complications from heart problems we didn't know he had. He was 62. He died 4/30/09 and I miss him every day more and more. I see you are recently a widow, and I am so sorry for your loss. I hate that we are here, but glad there are others to talk to. It really will help you. Sue
I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. My husband lost his battle with cancer on May 14th. and I still can't come to grips with it. Our Ann. is also coming up on Aug.22 it would of been our 14th. The only thing we can do is take it one day at a time...the ups and downs are daily. Just always remember you no longer have to travel this road alone.
Barbara I am so sorry, I know how you are feeling (((HUGS))) I lost my wife May 16. You are going to find so much support here, when your friends and family just can not understand your broken heart, the utter despair you are having, if you come here and let us know what you are feeling, we will understand and support you.
If you hear the weird noise when you are here, that is the real time chat. Go on over and see what they are talking about. If you are having a really bad day go on the chat and say I am new and having a bad day. They will stop what they are chatting about and be there to help you.
So pleased you found us, azbarbara ... and so quickly. Take a look around and join our conversations - in the Groups, Forums and Chat Room. You'll find wonderful support here to help you get through these tough times and special days.
So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.