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Bonnie replied to bellgamin's discussion First post - Aloha in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Gwamma, my husband also died July 29, 2014.  It is hard to believe it is now over four years.  The wound has as you say healed over some but I don’t think it will ever completely and I will always have those moments when the tears…"
Jan 6
Gwamma replied to bellgamin's discussion First post - Aloha in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I can relate fully to this.  I, too, had these exact same feelings of a raw open wound.  As though half of me was ripped away.  My hubby died 7/29/14.  Now, 4 years later, the wound has scabbed over somewhat.  It is fragile,…"
Jan 5
Sun Flower replied to bellgamin's discussion First post - Aloha in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Just checking to find out how you are doing? During this Holiday Season it can be rough. Each Christmas, I put up a white artificial Christmas Tree. Decorated it with Blue Lights and Blue Christmas ornaments. That was what my husband liked. I…"
Dec 14, 2018
Sun Flower replied to bellgamin's discussion First post - Aloha in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi Bellgamin, It's been awhile that I have on this site. I lost my spouse of 521/2 years on Christmas Day. 10 years ago. Sometimes, it helps to talk to someone that's been there. Yes, I am sad and lonely , especially during…"
Dec 8, 2018
Cee replied to bellgamin's discussion First post - Aloha in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Welcome to the group no one wants to join. I am sorry for your loss, you were honored to have her for so long but it doesn't make it any easy to lose a loved one.    We were married for 26 years and he left me in 2011. I still…"
Sep 26, 2018
Bonnie replied to bellgamin's discussion First post - Aloha in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi bellgamin, Welcome to this site.  My husband died four years ago in July and in the first years it helped me a lot to come here often and get the support from others all over who had walked the same path.  I have come less often lately…"
Sep 3, 2018
sweetlady replied to bellgamin's discussion First post - Aloha in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"hi I am 18 yrs or more and it still hurts. He died in Israel suddenly of a heart attack they gave him no cpror resuscitation they went thru my bag held me down supposedly for my I.d. I was alone to travel back to the USA they even gave me a hard…"
Sep 3, 2018
Don replied to bellgamin's discussion First post - Aloha in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I felt the same way:  Like  I had been torn in half and the best part of me had been thrown away.  You will never get over it.    Just lean to live with it and concentrate only on the good memories.   It is…"
Sep 3, 2018
bellgamin added a discussion to the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
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First post - Aloha

My  first post. Aloha from Hawaii. I was born in 1930 when (as they say) dinosaurs roamed the streets of Honolulu.My wife, Imiko, & I had been married for 56 years when she died of cancer. She passed away peacefully in June 2012 at home, in her own bed, surrounded by her family plus 3 "angels" from St. Francis Hospice (her doctor & 2 nurses). Aided from time to time by those angels, I was Imiko's 24/7 caregiver for the last 4-5 years of her life -- a great privilege.In the Bible, the…See More
Sep 3, 2018
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for bellgamin
"Welcome to Widville, bellgamin. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions…"
Sep 3, 2018

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At 9:49am on September 3, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, bellgamin. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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