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bethsheba
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  • Irving, TX
  • United States
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bethsheba's Discussions

Who Was/Wasn't "There" for you?

Started this discussion. Last reply by bethsheba Apr 4, 2012. 8 Replies

I understand that dealing with grief makes other people uncomfortable. They don't know what to say or do.  Sometimes they just disappear.  After your loss did it surprise you who was "there" for you…Continue

Belated Christmas Gift from my late husband

Started this discussion. Last reply by Juls Mar 28, 2012. 1 Reply

The most awesome thing happened yesterday. I got a present in the mail.  A christmas card from 2010 came back as undeliverable.  Seriously, over a year ago it finally came back.  Inside was a…Continue

 

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bethsheba and Beth are now friends
Aug 6, 2012
Wendy J and bethsheba are now friends
Jun 24, 2012
bethsheba replied to Brian's discussion Girlfriend doesn't like to see picture of my late wife
"LOTS of people equate a divorce with being a widow.  They are (pardon me for lack of a better word) just ignorant."
May 24, 2012
bethsheba replied to Carol Scibelli's discussion People Assume...fill in the blank or tell your incident/moment...
"gaw!!!   now I just want to slap someone. I get that too (Joe was 25+ older than me) also folks ASSume we married for money.  "
May 24, 2012
bethsheba replied to luvofmylife's discussion wondering if anyone was married to a Police Officer?
"my LH was a reitred police officer long before I met him.  Still the fellowship of the PD carried me through the inital grief process.  Its like we are one big family and you have to be a police officer to get it.  "
May 24, 2012
bethsheba and luvofmylife are now friends
May 24, 2012
bethsheba replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"amen"
May 10, 2012
bethsheba replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"wow our stories are so similar.  my husband was a police officer and the doctors had a hard time finding out what was wrong with him. He had the same things wrong with him as your husband.  I remember seeing Joe's urine once (it was…"
May 10, 2012
bethsheba commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"@LJ1 "I am now angry with all the references to "couples" and romantic events, knowing that I am no longer part of a couple. Anyone else feel the same?"   i had a meltdown at the opera this weekend. Looking at all the…"
Apr 23, 2012
bethsheba and srm541 are now friends
Apr 23, 2012
bethsheba commented on azbarbara1961's photo
Apr 4, 2012
Lee left a comment for bethsheba
"Thank you for friending me.  I enjoyed the chat and look forward to many more.  Lee"
Apr 4, 2012
bethsheba and Tommi are now friends
Apr 4, 2012
bethsheba replied to bethsheba's discussion Who Was/Wasn't "There" for you?
"i LOVE to listen to stories about my husband  "
Apr 4, 2012
bethsheba replied to Grits504's discussion I have a crush and it's making me sad.
"I think he does like you and is waiting for you to take off the rings.   question is...how do you know when you are ready?"
Apr 4, 2012
bogie77 (Donna) replied to bethsheba's discussion Who Was/Wasn't "There" for you?
"Kim, isn't it nice hearing from his former co-workers?  The best conversation I had with anyone after Andy passed away was with a woman he used to work with.  I had never met her and I still haven't, but it was a really good…"
Apr 2, 2012

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At 6:47pm on April 4, 2012, Lee said…

Thank you for friending me.  I enjoyed the chat and look forward to many more.  Lee

At 12:21pm on March 27, 2012,
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At 10:34pm on March 26, 2012, Lisa (lost) Lamb said…

I'm so sorry for your loss Beth, but I'm glad you've joined us on this healing journey. I wish none of us ever needed a place like this, but now that we do it's so much better to travel with friends at our sides. You will find great comfort and understanding here, you will also make many new friends along the way. I joined 9 months ago and would still be lost without everyone here.This is a safe environment to discuss anything you need, and you will never be judged. I know I have found many topics that my friends and family just don't understand or don't want to discuss. But here everyone is so very open and understanding it will put you at ease. Welcome and please join in when your ready.

At 6:58pm on March 26, 2012, wannabmartha said…

So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad that you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same journey together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.

 
 
 

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