"ummm...yeah...oh hell yeah. I was angry..really, really fkg angry. but i think i've worn myself out..and can't do it much anymore. but it still comes..i think this is a totally understandable reaction to this crummy deal."
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Welcome to the Anger Phase!
Started this discussion. Last reply by AEDforever (Ali) Dec 7, 2012. 22 Replies 1 Like
I'm four months in and I guess the numbness wore off and now I am just ANGRY. So angry that I wake up every morning with a clenched jaw. I'm always snapping at my kids. I am especially just so pissed…Continue
How to help grieving children?
Started this discussion. Last reply by kimkirt (KK) Jul 31, 2012. 2 Replies 0 Likes
Sometimes I get so caught up in my own grief, I tend to overlook my kids. I have three, ages 9, 11 and 14. It's the 14 year old boy (almost 15) that seems to be grieving the hardest. I am so…Continue
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MrsD replied to camry's discussion Welcome to the Anger Phase!
"I am so angry. Angry that his doctor never did any blood work when he was a new patient, even after my husband complained of abdominal pain, dark urine, and pain during urination and they had two conversations about his drinking. His liver disease…"
Mrs.Rackpack liked camry's discussion Welcome to the Anger Phase!
Kylre replied to camry's discussion Welcome to the Anger Phase!
"I lost my husband in April. There were so many unfinished projects. He used to help everyone and neglect his own projects. After he died so many people offered and said they would finish certain projects. Some of them…"
Mrs.Rackpack replied to camry's discussion Welcome to the Anger Phase!
"Lost my husband Feb 19.2012
He left me with 2 young sons and no will. I am so angry at the world. I hate this and can hardly believe this is real"
Mrs.Rackpack replied to camry's discussion Welcome to the Anger Phase!
"This could have been me that wrote this. We are in the same place but i am 40.
So many people especially my in laws, say " Let me know, whatever I can do to help" and when you call for help. The have lame excuses why they are…"
camry replied to Marsha's discussion What Have You Tried That Is New In Your Life Now?
"I started running. I never have been a very physically active person. I managed to fail gym four straight years in high school (and ironically married a gym teacher). But I started on the treadmill a few months ago without the intentions of losing…"
camry replied to jimswife33 (Michelle)'s discussion Spiritual mediums, what do you think?
"I went to one recently. It was a spontaneous thing, a friend was going to a psychic party and I asked if I could come. The girl was amazing and said some spot on things. I was afraid to go but she did bring me some peace."
camry replied to Karen's discussion Going back to work
"I went back to work within weeks of my husband's death. I needed to keep my mind occupied. It was very difficult because I work in a public building and naturally everyone had questions of where I was for the past year. Some people knew and…"
Manderly replied to camry's discussion Welcome to the Anger Phase!
"I've developed road rage. I yell in the car at other drivers. At least I don't drive recklessly by tail gating and swerving etc, thankfully. I'm at eleven months and it just keeps getting worse.
I think in the…"
keepinup replied to camry's discussion Welcome to the Anger Phase!
"I am at 9 months and I am angry.
Angry because I want to move on but have guilt.
Angry that my husband died of a sudden heart attack (3 mths prior to death, he got a clean bill of health)
Angry that I have to make decisions all on my own.
Angry that…"
camry replied to camry's discussion Welcome to the Anger Phase!
"15 months being the start of him being sick til now.....can't believe it."
ms.new.true replied to camry's discussion Welcome to the Anger Phase!
"Reading is perfectly fine. I lurked for almost 2 months before joining anything... easily up until 3 or 4 am reading. Please join us in conversation when you feel comfortable. *huggles*
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capecodder replied to camry's discussion Welcome to the Anger Phase!
"I"m new to this site but reading everything....
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- At 9:57pm on July 11, 2012,
ebwilkie said… Hi Camry - My husband died of pancreatic cancer too. Hit us like a brick wall. He lived nine months after diagnoses but he was sick for a year before diagnosis. He tried all that was offered to him because he wanted to live but nothing worked. I am having a bad time getting over this because part of me died with Brian. Take care and tell me about your husband. Elaine
- At 10:40am on July 2, 2012,
janet said… Wishing you a Happy Birthday.
- At 10:54pm on June 19, 2012,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks. If you need a little more help, go to the Home page and look in the right hand column to see the link to a "Help Desk" form.
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- At 7:15pm on June 18, 2012,
telechick said…
Hi Camry,
Thanks for the friend request. I'm sorry for your loss. It's a such a horrible situation we find ourselves in. This week has been much harder than the previous ones and I suspect that the numbness is wearing off.
many hugs.
Liza
- At 6:51pm on June 16, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome Camry: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I know you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
- At 10:25pm on June 9, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
I'm so very sorry for your loss, camry, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.
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