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cher1010
  • Female
  • Simi Valley, CA
  • United States
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  • Mac
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  • Sue.J
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  • Don A
 

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cher1010 and Chrissie are now friends
Feb 10
cher1010 and Karen (funnybne) are now friends
Feb 3
ukladyeileen and cher1010 are now friends
Jan 26
Brucer left a comment for cher1010
"Hi Cher, Thank you for the friend request.  My heart goes out to you!  I hope you can find some peace at times.  I know it is so difficult. God Bless Bruce"
Jan 19
cher1010 and Love2stage are now friends
Jan 18
rolling (Larry) left a comment for cher1010
"Hi Cher, Thank you so much for writing!  I'm very, very sorry for your loss.  It's cool that you live so close.  I'd like to try and get some of the Widowed Village members together.  Alan has been arranging some…"
Jan 18
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Jan 3
cher1010 replied to missing my love...'s discussion Anyone experiencing challenges with adult step children?
"I too have the same issues,, ive adored and treasured my stepdaughter and when my husband passed this october,, i started giving her and her husband everything possible.. I was in a daze and just kept saying take it, take it and they did.. I was…"
Dec 28, 2012
Rosebud left a comment for cher1010
"Hi Cher. Thanks for friending me. Need all the friends I can get, especially ones who get it. How old was your husband?"
Dec 28, 2012
cher1010 and Supa Dupa Fresh are now friends
Dec 11, 2012
cher1010 commented on AlanRRT's event Rose Parade
"Id love to go Alan,, never been but Im scared to drive there by myself,, If you know of any carpools I could join,, that would be wonderful.. "
Dec 5, 2012
cher1010 and Beth are now friends
Nov 26, 2012
Don A left a comment for cher1010
"Hi Cher, thanks for the friend request. I am sorry you have to be here. Losing our loves is hard. Hope you get understanding here. It's a great site."
Nov 25, 2012
gina left a comment for cher1010
"Hi Cher its Gina.Yes I would love to meet for coffee sometime.Our family business is Green Acres Market.Im sure you and I have mutual friends.I graduated from Simi High in 81.Maiden name Burtchell.I will e-mail you my number:)"
Nov 13, 2012
gina left a comment for cher1010
"Hi Cher.Simi Valley!What a small world.Im so sorry for your loss.Sorry is an understatement.Most physical and emotional experience I have yet to journey.Randy my husband of 25 years passed away 01-10-12 of a massive heart attack.He was my anchor in…"
Nov 7, 2012
cher1010 and gina are now friends
Nov 7, 2012

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At 4:24am on January 19, 2013, Brucer said…

Hi Cher,

Thank you for the friend request.  My heart goes out to you!  I hope you can find some peace at times.  I know it is so difficult.

God Bless

Bruce

At 7:28pm on January 18, 2013, rolling (Larry) said…

Hi Cher,

Thank you so much for writing!  I'm very, very sorry for your loss.  It's cool that you live so close.  I'd like to try and get some of the Widowed Village members together.  Alan has been arranging some meetings in the Orange County area but I know of none in LA county.  Perhaps we could carpool sometime? 

Take care,

Larry

At 9:51pm on December 28, 2012, Rosebud said…
Hi Cher. Thanks for friending me. Need all the friends I can get, especially ones who get it. How old was your husband?
At 6:52pm on November 25, 2012, Don A said…
Hi Cher, thanks for the friend request. I am sorry you have to be here. Losing our loves is hard. Hope you get understanding here. It's a great site.
At 6:32pm on November 13, 2012, gina said…

Hi Cher its Gina.Yes I would love to meet for coffee sometime.Our family business is Green Acres Market.Im sure you and I have mutual friends.I graduated from Simi High in 81.Maiden name Burtchell.I will e-mail you my number:)

At 10:33pm on November 7, 2012, gina said…

Hi Cher.Simi Valley!What a small world.Im so sorry for your loss.Sorry is an understatement.Most physical and emotional experience I have yet to journey.Randy my husband of 25 years passed away 01-10-12 of a massive heart attack.He was my anchor in every respect.I take life a moment at a time.My father in law saw my suffering and directed me to this site.This site has made me realize Iam only human and we share all the same pains fears and anxieties.Im 49 born and raised in Simi Valley.We have a family business here.But even the "family" business does not have the same feel as when Randy was present.tell me about yourself.

 

 

At 11:52am on October 31, 2012, hendrixx2 said…

Hi cher1010,

Welcome, sad for your loss, but you have found a good place, thanx for the friend request; there is much good support here and I hope it will lend in the healing for you..

At 11:25pm on October 22, 2012, Joyce said…

Welcome cher1010:  I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".

At 1:30pm on October 22, 2012, carolynne said…

Cher, I'm so sorry for the loss that brings you here, but glad you've found us. Welcome.

At 10:03am on October 20, 2012, Dianne in Nevada said…

I'm so sorry for your loss, cher1010, but you've found a wonderful place for support and friendship. Here's a good place to start: Basic Site Info

Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations.  I look forward to getting to know you here.

 
 
 

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