"Hi, My name is Sharon. I lost my husband December 27th 2008. He was a lung cancer survivor of 3 years. We went to Disneyworld to celebrate and he got what we thought was the flu, it was pnuemonia. It was not diagnosed in time and he died of…"
"I lit candles and looked through pictures as long as I could.... It was just to painful and sad... Our 17th wedding anniversary will be April 23rd... It seems this is the saddest day of the year. All other holidays include other people, this was our…"
"I understand your pain completely... I miss the toothpaste in the sink, rings of water from his glass on the counter...
So many things that I thought were insignificant in my daily life are now the most significant things I miss the most. Life…"
"Are there signs to let you know if you are ready??? I am so confused and afraid of the future.... My husband and I used to laugh about if one of us were to go first what would the other do. He used to tell me he would not want me to find anyone…"
"Yes, It seems this is so. But I found being on Facebook a lot the time has made me even sadder. I see everyday all my friends living, enjoying life with their spouses and families and I feel cheated. I suppose it is a bit of a double edged…"
"Yes, I feel that way everyday... It is going on three years for me and I am still stuck in what people tell me is the initial stages of grief and that I need to move on... What does that mean anyway? I know exactly how you feel and I am so sorry...."
"There really is no right or wrong... We do what we need to to get by. Most people could never understand what it is like to be in our situation. What you did was from the heart... and all that matters is it felt right to you. I'm impressed also…"
"I joined yesterday as well... I lost my husband and best friend December 27th, 2008. I'm not sure I will ever understand the full impact of being a widow but so far this is the hardest thing I have ever had to endure. I hoping meeting all of…"
"I have had only one dream of my husband since he passed away... It was shortly after he died and in the dream I told him how happy I was he was home, he told me he could only stay for a while and that he wanted to reassure me that everything would…"
Welcome to the Village ... please know that this is a safe and warm environment and I hope you will love it here as much as I do. You may like to join a group (e.g. the decade you were born in, or if you were suddenly widowed, etc so that you can chat with other widows in a similar situation ...) Please don't hesitate to join in with any of the discussions, or even start one of your own. And, just say if you'd like some help with navigating the site x