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Thinking of you on your special day, Debbie.
Dianne"
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debbie C commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"My 8 year old daughter still sleeps with me a year later after my husband Martin died. My eleven year old slept with me for about six months after he passed and finally moved back to her own room. Each child will do that when they are…"
debbie C commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Thank You so much for telling me that, sometimes I need to hear that I am not over reacting to people's ignorance. I heard that so many times yesterday-"I cannot believe it is a year already" I could not believe it. I am…"
debbie C commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Yesterday was a year since my husband Martin died of metastic melanoma. He was 48 and our girls were 7 and 10 years old when he passed. Yesterday I was not upset but today it hit me like a ton of bricks. I dont want anyone to say to me…"
debbie C commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I am so sorry for all of your pain-as I understand it, this will be the first Christmas without my husband Martin for my girls and I. If you all lived close to me would love to have you all over-because you all understand how I feel-I dont…"
poohpunkie left a comment for debbie C
"Welcome and I am sorry that you have experienced the loss that led you here. has your girls' school counselor been of any help? The counselors at my girls school helped a little since the girls lost daddy during the summer, starting…"
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for debbie C
"You're welcome, Debbie. I see you've joined a couple of groups - which is a good way to make connections. Did you see the private groups for those with young children? Here's a link to the Groups page where you can click…"
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debbie C commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"After reading the posts and trying to get somemore ideas on how to help my girls ages 8 & 11 I am calling the superintendent to try to get a support group going for the girls at school hopefully this will help them. They are having a such…"
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for debbie C
"I'm so very sorry for your loss, Debbie, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. I see you've already joined the Groups that will help you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look…"
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- At 12:55am on May 7, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
Thinking of you on your special day, Debbie.
Dianne
- At 9:29am on December 10, 2011,
poohpunkie said… Welcome and I am sorry that you have experienced the loss that led you here. has your girls' school counselor been of any help? The counselors at my girls school helped a little since the girls lost daddy during the summer, starting back to school was awkward for them with all of the recent changes to their schedule. He was Mr.Mom and took care of them while I worked. If you haven't talked to the school principal or counselor do, they will offer as much help as they can and may have some contacts to help you further.
- At 12:12pm on December 9, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…
You're welcome, Debbie. I see you've joined a couple of groups - which is a good way to make connections. Did you see the private groups for those with young children? Here's a link to the Groups page where you can click on the group that fits you:
http://widowedvillage.org/page/groups-new
Check out the Forum discussions, too, and if you have a question that isn't addressed just start your own Forum discussion. Don't hesitate to ask questions if you have trouble getting around the site. We're glad you're here.
- At 12:09pm on December 7, 2011,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
Your very welcome Debbie, I found this place just 3 weeks after my husband (KC) passed away, I don't know what I would of done without it. At the time I thought I was losing my mind, so many crazy thoughts running around in my head. Then I came to WV and started reading others post, to my surprise so many others thought just like I did it was such a relief. You are right about freinds and family, we are all very close but when it comes to the loss of my husband, really none of them can help me. They can be here for me, but you have to "live it" to "get it". So I spend alot of time alone because I don't want to have to put on a smile just to make everyone around me feel at ease, I would love to be honest with others but then they think I need medication or a shrink. We all just need to be given what ever time we need, not the amount of time others think it should take us to bounce back. ( We lost our husbands, we didn't have the flu or something ) This will take time (alot) of time, and that should be ok. How old are your children? Mine are all adults, and yes they are all having issues of one kind or another trying to come to grips with everything thats happened.I wish you and your family well, if you ever need to talk I'm here. Lisa
- At 3:49am on December 7, 2011,
I'm so sorry Debbie for the loss the brought you here, but so glad you found us. I hope you will find some of the same comfort and understanding here that I have.
- At 12:46am on December 7, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…
I'm so very sorry for your loss, Debbie, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. I see you've already joined the Groups that will help you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. You may want to venture into our Chat Room some time, too. I look forward to getting to know you here.
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