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debbiejerry1
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  • Summit Point, WV
  • United States
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Party of One

Started this discussion. Last reply by Susan 8 hours ago. 10 Replies

I lost my husband of 27 years last June.  It is crazy to me that I'm involved in this group and posting my first post.  So unbelievable still.  I've been doing  as ok as I can be.  The last couple of…Continue

 

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Susan replied to debbiejerry1's discussion Party of One
"Imogen,    Your right! They don't need to know that information... I'm going to start leaving that blank also. :-) Susan"
8 hours ago
Susan replied to debbiejerry1's discussion Party of One
"AshleyNicole,        I miss that also. Just saying " Come on, lets do this or that "...  My sisters like to do things with me once in awhile, but I know they have they own lives.  Since Paul was my whole life,…"
8 hours ago
ashleynicole8378 replied to debbiejerry1's discussion Party of One
"I'm also so tired of being alone. I that I don't have Mark as my default person to do things with anymore. I loved that he was usually open for whatever. Now if I want to do anything with someone it involves planning ahead. I don't…"
16 hours ago
Imogen replied to debbiejerry1's discussion Party of One
"I am so tired of being alone.  Tired of handling all the challenges alone, the garage door broke last week, the lawn mower broke on the weekend.   Last week took a road trip me & my two dogs.  Thank God for them.  I gave up…"
18 hours ago
wedac3 replied to debbiejerry1's discussion Party of One
"yes, i was blessed with a wonderful husband.  i hate it when people say: you should be glad you had all those good years together. so many people never have that.   well, i think that makes it worse, because i we were happy together, and i…"
yesterday
Susan replied to debbiejerry1's discussion Party of One
"Wedac3,    I"m so sorry... But I do know a little of how you feel. Paul and I met when I was 14 and he was 17... In high school. After he graduated in 72, he went on to Vietnam. Then I graduated in 75 when he got out of the Navy. We…"
Monday
wedac3 replied to debbiejerry1's discussion Party of One
"I. Hate. Being. Alone.  My husband and I were married for 33 years.  We started dating when I was 17 and he was 21.  It has been very difficult to figure out a life without him in it.  I am very fortunate to have a pile of little…"
Monday
debbiejerry1 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion JUNE Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"June 23rd marks one year since 'the day'.  I lost my 55 year old husband of 27 years.  I have been back and forth with how to handle it.  Do I do something?  Do I ignore it?  I asked my grown children and they…"
Jun 14
Canadian Country Gal replied to debbiejerry1's discussion Party of One
"I know exactly how you feel.  I was married for almost 34 years without any children.  My husband and I did everything together, very rarely did we do things apart.  He's been gone almost 15 months.  For a while every time I…"
Jun 1
Susan replied to debbiejerry1's discussion Party of One
"Hi debbiejerry1,    My husband passed on 12.7.2016 .... And your heading " Party Of One ' is not my cup of tea ... It's sad to me. Because I THINK I know how you feel. I have no to some family outings because I don't…"
Jun 1
Athena53 replied to debbiejerry1's discussion Party of One
"Yes, it's weird being a Party of One!  What always hits me between the eyes is when I fill in surveys (I do a lot on e-Rewards to get Hilton points) and I have to check "Widowed" as my relationship status.  It makes me feel…"
May 18
debbiejerry1 posted a discussion

Party of One

I lost my husband of 27 years last June.  It is crazy to me that I'm involved in this group and posting my first post.  So unbelievable still.  I've been doing  as ok as I can be.  The last couple of days have been challenging.  I have a couple of small fun trips coming up.  I have had friends bail on going.  I'm not upset with anyone.  I just hate that I don't have my partner to do these things with me.  Earlier I responded to a family gathering.  It asked how many would be attending and I…See More
May 17
debbiejerry1 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Wow. I'm so sorry for your loss. I say wow because I lost my husband June 23 last year. He was 55. I'm 47. We were married 27 years. We have 2 kids. My son is 25 and my daughter is 23. I found this group when I stumbled across the widow…"
May 17
debbiejerry1 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: SOUTH - ATLANTIC in the group Connect with others in your area
"I love that area.  My father in law lives in Venice.  We went to Siesta Key after losing my husband.  It was to be a healing trip for me, my daughter, son, and daughter in law.  Also sort of a honeymoon as it as the day after…"
May 6
debbiejerry1 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: SOUTH - ATLANTIC in the group Connect with others in your area
"I live in the Winchester, VA area.  I lost my husband June 23 2016 waiting for a liver transplant.  We were married 27 years and he was just 55.  This is the first group like this I've joined.  I wasn't ready previously…"
May 6
debbiejerry1 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I'm so sorry you didn't get your happy ending.  I wish everyone was an organ donor to help the supply and demand.  It is such a great gift.  I hope to see changes in the process so others don't have to go through what…"
May 6

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At 4:42pm on May 2, 2017, Joyce said…

Welcome debbiejerry1: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat.You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences.  Post and join in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".

 
 
 

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