Hello! My husband worked for the kindest company (not an oxymoron in this case). They extended our health insurance for 6 months (free) after Jeff's death, as a standard benefit We have 3 months…Continue
I totally stole this from a friend's facebook , but it is so great-
“Grief can destroy you -- or focus you. You can decide a relationship was all for nothing if it had to end in death, and you alone. OR you can realize that every moment of it had more meaning than you dared to recognize at the time, so much meaning it scared you, so you just lived, just took for granted the love and laughter of each day, and didn't…Continue
It took five hours, but Jeff's friend broke through all the computer stuff and reset it. I told him up front that this was hard for me and he said it was for him too. We both cried! Me, several times. He said he thinks about him almost every day. That was nice.
You know, I rarely get ANGRY about the medical mistakes that led to Jeff's death. Yes, I'm involved in legal action to hold the responsible parties accountable, but I rarely get ANGRY. Today, his friend told me that the job…Continue
Friday use to be the day Jeff would arrive home from wherever he had been that week. If he scored an early flight, he would make it for dinner. He would sit at the kitchen island and tell me all about his week, while I cooked. Half of it was so technical, it may as well been a foreign language. I always appreciated that he thought I could follow that stuff. He would tell me about the customers he met, the restaurants he went to, the city he was in. I would be more than a little jealous and…Continue
I had a SUPER day today and I am so grateful for it!
1) I took care of some insurance business, I had been avoiding.
2) I finally made a call to my late husband's co-worker and asked for IT help. My husband was an IT guru and I haven't one clue how this house is connected. He worked from home sometimes too, so his desk area looks like a command center and has layer upon layer of security installed. The BRAIN to everything is in THERE! We have been shedding…Continue