"So sorry to hear you are sad Mark...you know you have many friends here...there is nothing like talking to others going through what you are going through..others may be polite but simply can not relate.
Keep posting here and you will have…"
"MishyB I think we all ask dumb questions when we don't know what to say..we don't mean harm, just want to communicate and help....but depending on one's mood it will hit us differently.
I always thought that question was…"
"How exciting..I have heard others say similar things.. I have not seen Ray as such but have had a number of dreams with him in them, which give me pause..
lol one was he was back in the SNF and I was sitting on the bed thinking..well I need to let…"
"Hi Maggiepie...Oh I think this is totally normal..well for some of us lol and if not who cares..do what makes you feel good and comforted.
.I have a photo of my husband Ray (died 9/11/19) on my dresser and often refer to it. I was fortunate to have…"
"Hi Brian..I am so sorry for the pain you now feel..I lost my partner 9/11/19 and the adjustment is like nothing I have ever felt. They say time heals all but that is often hard to believe as we go through the dark moments...Yet what choice do we…"
"I know that various states, countries, and ships have different rules concerning this.
This is what Carnival Cruises have to say:
Burial at Sea – Dispersing of Cremated Ashes
Dispersing cremated ashes at sea is permitted. Please note the…"
"Hi sis...Alaska was a consideration but we are going to the Bahamas, I think..My husband never had any desire to go to Alaska so we would help him depart sooner :)..but he will be with us everywhere in spirit :) and I feel he would be just fine with…"
"Hi laura...I thought there was a law the ashes had to be a certain distance from shore? Guess it wouldn't matter since the ashes are sterile? I am going to take my first very large ship cruise for a few days..out of Miami ..I live…"
"When my sisters and I went on a cruise to Alaska, my sister spread some of her husband's ashes from the back of the ship. We went down to the lowest point of cabins and there was a door to a small balcony where she left them go. She did not ask…"
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