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dolly
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dolly replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"TY Morgana...now with the virus I am putting this all on hold...."
Apr 22
Morgana (Janet) replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I believe you have to call the cruise line and talk with them."
Apr 1
only1sue left a comment for dolly
"Just accepted you as a friend Dolly. Hope to have you comment again on " Born in the 40's." Sue."
Feb 13
dolly replied to MishyB's discussion Is it just me, or is "How are you?" a dumb question to ask a widow?
"So sorry to hear you are sad Mark...you know you have many friends here...there is nothing like talking to others going through what you are going through..others may be polite but simply can not relate. Keep posting here and you will have…"
Jan 20
dolly replied to MishyB's discussion Is it just me, or is "How are you?" a dumb question to ask a widow?
"MishyB   I think we all ask dumb questions when we don't know what to say..we don't mean harm, just want to communicate and help....but depending on one's mood it will hit us differently. I always thought that question was…"
Jan 20
dolly replied to Maggiepie's discussion Talking to hubby in my head or aloud
"Maggiepie....What a great experience you! "
Jan 20
dolly replied to Maggiepie's discussion Talking to hubby in my head or aloud
"How exciting..I have heard others say similar things.. I have not seen Ray as such but have had a number of dreams with him in them, which give me pause.. lol one was he was back in the SNF and I was sitting on the bed thinking..well I need to let…"
Jan 19
dolly replied to Maggiepie's discussion Talking to hubby in my head or aloud
"Hi Maggiepie...Oh I think this is totally normal..well for some of us lol and if not who cares..do what makes you feel good and comforted. .I have a photo of my husband Ray (died 9/11/19) on my dresser and often refer to it. I was fortunate to have…"
Jan 19
dolly replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Brian..I am so sorry for the pain you now feel..I lost my partner 9/11/19 and the adjustment is like nothing I have ever felt. They say time heals all but that is often hard to believe as we go through the dark moments...Yet what choice do we…"
Jan 5
dolly replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Thank you...having the family with me is great..my sister will be there ..she lost her husband in May of this year...also my other brother in law died this year..It has been a sad year..."
Dec 28, 2019
dolly replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Thank you Frank...:)  I appreciate your taking the time..."
Dec 28, 2019
Frank replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I know that various states, countries, and ships have different rules concerning this. This is what Carnival Cruises have to say: Burial at Sea – Dispersing of Cremated Ashes Dispersing cremated ashes at sea is permitted. Please note the…"
Dec 23, 2019
dolly replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi sis...Alaska was a consideration but we are going to the Bahamas, I think..My husband never had any desire to go to Alaska so we would help him depart sooner :)..but he will be with us everywhere in spirit :) and I feel he would be just fine with…"
Dec 2, 2019
dolly replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi laura...I thought there was a law the ashes had to be a certain distance from shore? Guess it wouldn't  matter since the ashes are sterile? I am going to take my first very large ship  cruise for a few days..out of Miami ..I live…"
Dec 2, 2019
dolly replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Thank you Bobby..I do plan to call cruise lines but just wanted to see if anyone had info I should reference when I call. Thanks again for your time!"
Dec 2, 2019
sis replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"When my sisters and I went on a cruise to Alaska, my sister spread some of her husband's ashes from the back of the ship. We went down to the lowest point of cabins and there was a door to a small balcony where she left them go. She did not ask…"
Dec 1, 2019

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At 12:17am on February 13, 2020, only1sue said…

Just accepted you as a friend Dolly. Hope to have you comment again on " Born in the 40's."

Sue.

At 6:23pm on November 14, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, dolly. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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