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dolly
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  • Lakeland, FL
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dolly replied to Maggiepie's discussion Talking to hubby in my head or aloud
"How exciting..I have heard others say similar things.. I have not seen Ray as such but have had a number of dreams with him in them, which give me pause.. lol one was he was back in the SNF and I was sitting on the bed thinking..well I need to let…"
2 hours ago
dolly replied to Maggiepie's discussion Talking to hubby in my head or aloud
"Hi Maggiepie...Oh I think this is totally normal..well for some of us lol and if not who cares..do what makes you feel good and comforted. .I have a photo of my husband Ray (died 9/11/19) on my dresser and often refer to it. I was fortunate to have…"
2 hours ago
dolly replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Brian..I am so sorry for the pain you now feel..I lost my partner 9/11/19 and the adjustment is like nothing I have ever felt. They say time heals all but that is often hard to believe as we go through the dark moments...Yet what choice do we…"
Jan 5
dolly replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Thank you...having the family with me is great..my sister will be there ..she lost her husband in May of this year...also my other brother in law died this year..It has been a sad year..."
Dec 28, 2019
dolly replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Thank you Frank...:)  I appreciate your taking the time..."
Dec 28, 2019
Frank replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I know that various states, countries, and ships have different rules concerning this. This is what Carnival Cruises have to say: Burial at Sea – Dispersing of Cremated Ashes Dispersing cremated ashes at sea is permitted. Please note the…"
Dec 23, 2019
dolly replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi sis...Alaska was a consideration but we are going to the Bahamas, I think..My husband never had any desire to go to Alaska so we would help him depart sooner :)..but he will be with us everywhere in spirit :) and I feel he would be just fine with…"
Dec 2, 2019
dolly replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi laura...I thought there was a law the ashes had to be a certain distance from shore? Guess it wouldn't  matter since the ashes are sterile? I am going to take my first very large ship  cruise for a few days..out of Miami ..I live…"
Dec 2, 2019
dolly replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Thank you Bobby..I do plan to call cruise lines but just wanted to see if anyone had info I should reference when I call. Thanks again for your time!"
Dec 2, 2019
sis replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"When my sisters and I went on a cruise to Alaska, my sister spread some of her husband's ashes from the back of the ship. We went down to the lowest point of cabins and there was a door to a small balcony where she left them go. She did not ask…"
Dec 1, 2019
Bobbysgirl replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I just found this information on the internet. Go to Carnival.com and ask your questions."
Dec 1, 2019
Bobbysgirl replied to dolly's discussion Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I have not done this, but I have several friends who did it with Princess Cruiselines. They were satisfied with their choice. I don’t know the details. I think the best thing to do is to call the cruise line to find out their procedures. Peace…"
Dec 1, 2019
dolly added a discussion to the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
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Spreading Ashes in the Ocean from a Cruise Ship

Has anyone had a ceremony of spreading ashes from a cruise ship? I am thinking about doing that and wonder if there is anything I should be especially careful to consider. I am looking at Carnival Cruises to the Bahamas..since as I understand, one can actually spread the ashes as opposed to just placing the entire  biodegradable container. I would appreciate any info..Thanks!!See More
Dec 1, 2019
dolly replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Freebird.  I can not imagine what you have gone through in your journey through  pain in the last 15 years.It's  good to know things are getting a little better for you.  I am pretty new to this site too and join you in…"
Nov 27, 2019
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Nov 25, 2019
dolly replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Trav...sometimes it helps to talk, sometimes it doesn't...we just each need to do what helps us make it through our sadness and not feel  guilty or pressured for whatever we decide. ...I just joined here too and I find it both sad and…"
Nov 25, 2019

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At 6:23pm on November 14, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, dolly. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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