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Carmen513
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Carmen513 replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"Happy belated Birthday wishes to Helen for the the 14th of Jan! and well done you my friend.Sounds like you focused your love for in loving others, How proud Helen must be of you right now! My Bobby have birthdays on the same exact day. I remember…"
Wednesday
Carmen513 replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"Hi Ray well here we are ,first Christmas over without our soulmates. My emotions were a bit wobbly in the days leading up to Christmas, did my best to avoid the hyper mania in malls ,and Christmas Eve sad for me, because my hubby used to have this…"
Tuesday
Carmen513 replied to Mike's discussion Struggling to get by. in the group Widowed in 2017
"You reply to one,none or everyone. Its ok whatever way you decide.  Just remember Mike, you do not have to endure this alone. Emotions can be super sensitive,and unpredictable. In the early days and weeks, I did a lot of things on auto pilot,…"
Tuesday
Carmen513 replied to Mike's discussion Struggling to get by. in the group Widowed in 2017
"Hi Mike, I am sorry to hear of your loss of your beautiful Mary. I am sure you both endured and clung to every memory right to the end- and even after. It hurts like no other pain when we lose the love of our life partner. 30 years is a lot of time…"
Jan 14
Pegg left a comment for Carmen513
"Thank you! It is not easy and changes your life and way of thinking and living forever. I am also so sorry for your loss. I hope we can find peace and joy one day and for the remainder of our lives. Thank you for the request!"
Jan 8
Carmen513 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Let's Get Acquainted
"Beautiful picture of you both ,such joy. I am very sorry for your loss. Cancer took my love July 2/17. That empty void is incredible!"
Dec 31, 2017
Carmen513 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Let's Get Acquainted
"Gorgeous pic of a couple in love and just a tad of mischieveous playfulness x, I am sorry for your significant loss."
Dec 31, 2017
Carmen513 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Let's Get Acquainted
"Thank you ,sorry I took so long to reply InsideLove. Managed to get myself lost in these pages ( in a good way). I am deeply sorry for your loss too."
Dec 28, 2017
Carmen513 replied to SoundOfSilence's discussion It's Getting Real or Is It in the group Widowed in 2017
"No ,no never opologise for talking,sharing your life with in effect strangers. How bizarre  to think we met ( in word) , through grief. I am sure we all have many other things in common as well, but death has to be the greatest leveler of…"
Dec 27, 2017
Carmen513 replied to SoundOfSilence's discussion It's Getting Real or Is It in the group Widowed in 2017
"Hi sound of silence, I am not sure if you will read this , but I just read your post and felt your sadness and grief. I am so sorry for the loss of your dear husband Dan. It has almost been 6 months for me ,but if it were not for the calendar my…"
Dec 26, 2017
Carmen513 replied to bacasino's discussion Struggling with the Vocabulary of Widowhood in the group Widowed in 2017
"Word of kindness are like a smooth fragrant oil. Thank you so much Sosammy."
Dec 26, 2017
Carmen513 replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"Well Ray I believe in things I never used too although I knew lots already  about the supernatural world of the Holy Spirit ,and Gods spirit is a loving Gentleman so no fear involved ever there. Losing a lifes partenar is losing someone that we…"
Dec 23, 2017
Carmen513 replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"Hi Ray, I am sorry for your loss and I get where you are coming from when you say you miss your Helen. Mu husband Bobby fought Cancer and in the beginning survival looked promising. It was months and weeks of so many invasive treatments and major…"
Dec 23, 2017
Carmen513 replied to bacasino's discussion Struggling with the Vocabulary of Widowhood in the group Widowed in 2017
"...I recall one of my sons, asking me if I felt like I was still married because he added technically and by law you are not. I just smiled at him and said Mans law is not my law. I choose to live by the law, but I do not come  under the law. I…"
Dec 20, 2017
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Dec 20, 2017
Carmen513 replied to bacasino's discussion Struggling with the Vocabulary of Widowhood in the group Widowed in 2017
"Aww you are welcome ( though no thanks needed). Thank you for your condolences..(which I think I spelled incorrectly)."
Dec 20, 2017

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At 6:53pm on January 8, 2018, Pegg said…

Thank you! It is not easy and changes your life and way of thinking and living forever. I am also so sorry for your loss. I hope we can find peace and joy one day and for the remainder of our lives. Thank you for the request!

At 4:19pm on December 15, 2017, Patience (Diane) said…

Welcome to Widville, fivethirteen.  I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the "help" link at the top of page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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