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Carmen513
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Carmen513 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"Mike 3mths is still pretty raw grief.Often I felt sucked into this vortex,beaten up and spat back out again.10 minutes,2 hours, a day ,a night. To be honest there were times I thought is that what going insane feels like! I got some counseling with…"
Mar 18
Carmen513 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"Hi Mike, Thanks so much for posting . I am so sorry for your loss. It echoes everything so familiar to me (unfortunately) This thing called grief sucks, of course I knew it would, but I didnt relis= e that some days Id be hanging on by my…"
Mar 17
Carmen513 replied to Mike's discussion Dating Again? in the group Widowed in 2017
"I enjoyed the article Mike. And who doesn't love a good love story. My opinion is that if we remove our cultural upbringing and influences, dating,indeed marrying again might not be such a big deal. Thank fully Western Culture also accepts…"
Feb 13
Carmen513 replied to Mike's discussion Why did this happen? in the group Widowed in 2017
"Im sorry for your loss Mike. Never opologise for your questions, Sadly your grief,shock, state of mind is pefectly normal , an oxymoron since we life in such an imperfect world. 2 months is not long at all to lose a precious soulmate! Shock ie…"
Feb 12
Carmen513 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"Beautiful song GTG! Thanks for sharing (( Hugs)) Check this tune out , Danni and her twin wrote this for a friend and mother who had passed. Echoed my heart,maybe others too. God bless. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNoLJy68ZcE"
Feb 12
Carmen513 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"Pearlinden, HelensRay, Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate you taking the time to let me know. I believe love never dies, and as we respond in helping each other,we really are helping ourselves. I also believe with all my heart that our loved…"
Feb 11
Carmen513 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"Nothing will fill that void and emptiness that was once the space of a certain loved one. How could it? It would be like trying to squeeze a piece of jigsaw that looks like a similar colour and shape but is not, nor will ever be. No we all have our…"
Feb 10
Carmen513 replied to Snow's discussion Can't Stop Crying in the group Widowed in 2017
"(((Huggs Snow)) I am so sorry for your loss. It is natural and normal to cry when you lose a love that is very special to you!. It is ok and it sucks all at the same time. I was extremely sad ,tearful,numb,confused for days. Even though I did…"
Feb 5
Carmen513 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"Lovegabriel I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Gabriel. Cancer is such an evil disease. I am sure you both endured so any hurdles ,trials and sorrow during Gabriel's battle to survive. When someone we love hurts and in pain it effects…"
Jan 23
Carmen513 replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"Happy belated Birthday wishes to Helen for the the 14th of Jan! and well done you my friend.Sounds like you focused your love for in loving others, How proud Helen must be of you right now! My Bobby have birthdays on the same exact day. I remember…"
Jan 16
Carmen513 replied to HelensRay's discussion Its Official in the group Widowed in 2017
"Hi Ray well here we are ,first Christmas over without our soulmates. My emotions were a bit wobbly in the days leading up to Christmas, did my best to avoid the hyper mania in malls ,and Christmas Eve sad for me, because my hubby used to have this…"
Jan 15
Carmen513 replied to Mike's discussion Struggling to get by. in the group Widowed in 2017
"You reply to one,none or everyone. Its ok whatever way you decide.  Just remember Mike, you do not have to endure this alone. Emotions can be super sensitive,and unpredictable. In the early days and weeks, I did a lot of things on auto pilot,…"
Jan 15
Carmen513 replied to Mike's discussion Struggling to get by. in the group Widowed in 2017
"Hi Mike, I am sorry to hear of your loss of your beautiful Mary. I am sure you both endured and clung to every memory right to the end- and even after. It hurts like no other pain when we lose the love of our life partner. 30 years is a lot of time…"
Jan 14
Pegg left a comment for Carmen513
"Thank you! It is not easy and changes your life and way of thinking and living forever. I am also so sorry for your loss. I hope we can find peace and joy one day and for the remainder of our lives. Thank you for the request!"
Jan 8
Carmen513 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Let's Get Acquainted
"Beautiful picture of you both ,such joy. I am very sorry for your loss. Cancer took my love July 2/17. That empty void is incredible!"
Dec 31, 2017
Carmen513 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Let's Get Acquainted
"Gorgeous pic of a couple in love and just a tad of mischieveous playfulness x, I am sorry for your significant loss."
Dec 31, 2017

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At 6:53pm on January 8, 2018, Pegg said…

Thank you! It is not easy and changes your life and way of thinking and living forever. I am also so sorry for your loss. I hope we can find peace and joy one day and for the remainder of our lives. Thank you for the request!

At 4:19pm on December 15, 2017, Patience (Diane) said…

Welcome to Widville, fivethirteen.  I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the "help" link at the top of page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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