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how are you and the kids doing???
I would love to share stories, if you're still up to it of course!
peace and healing.
stacy"
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carolynne commented on greenash514's blog post Grumpy
"((((((((((hugs)))))))))) you are right to be angry, I would be angry too. I hate it when people who were never around in our lives pull that "poor me" crap since his death. i'm glad you are getting out into the world and enjoying life…"
carolynne commented on greenash514's blog post One year.....What if?
"The what ifs can consume you if you let them. Please try not to let them. (((((hugs))))) sending lots of love and prayers for peace."
Suz commented on greenash514's blog post Grumpy
"Greenash,
You can be so proud that you have made a happy life for yourself in one year's time. You will probably never know the exact reason your husband committed suicide but most people who do so are tormented by inner problems or would never…"
kimkirt (KK) commented on greenash514's blog post Grumpy
"He loved you, he just couldn't beat the demons. They are separate from each other, please try to remember that. Enjoy the happiness and freedom and try not to feel guilty. As I say sometimes "I was always waiting for the other shoe to…"
Marsha commented on greenash514's blog post Grumpy
"(((((Greenash))))) this journey is so hard. Yes we do get upset and hate our spouse for leaving us. So many emotions to deal with. It takes time to sort this all out if we ever really do. So sorry you are here but glad you found WV. Pray you find…"
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I am not in a good mood today, so I apologize in advance! May 14th would have been our 1 year anniversary, May 19th was one year since he passed away. I did very well that week, I think. Saturday was a perfect day, no tears, no sadness. I have been venturing out in the dating world again, and did have plans that evening to go downtown and watch some fireworks and hear some music for our city fest, so I'm sure that helped the mood. I did not want to sit around all day mopy and depressed, I am…See More
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Posted on May 24, 2012 at 3:54pm 5 Comments 0 Likes
I am not in a good mood today, so I apologize in advance! May 14th would have been our 1 year anniversary, May 19th was one year since he passed away. I did very well that week, I think. Saturday was a perfect day, no tears, no sadness. I have been venturing out in the dating world again, and did have plans that evening to go downtown and watch some fireworks and hear some music for our city fest, so I'm sure that helped the mood. I did not want to sit around all day mopy and depressed, I am…
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Posted on May 17, 2012 at 9:38pm 11 Comments 0 Likes
Tomorrow, May 18th, makes one year. One year since I have seen, touched, talked to, kissed, hugged, smiled at, laughed at, and enjoyed Tj. I kept focusing on the 19th because that is the date that he was pronounced dead. I, in my heart believe it was the 18th that he actually passed.
On May 18th I remember very well all the events of that day. We had just gotten married on the 14th and Tj was off work for the week because of it. That morning I woke up and got the kids ready,…
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Posted on May 15, 2012 at 12:49pm 11 Comments 0 Likes
Last night for our one year anniversary, I went and got a tattoo to remember Tj by. I thought long and hard about what to get and what not. I wanted something that would remind me of him and our life together, but that would be personal enough that only people I tell would know what it stood for. I am very happy with the outcome. I got 6 birds on a line and one flying away from them to the sky. The one flying away, of course is Tj, and the 6 on the line are Myself, My 4 children, and my step…
Continue Our first anniversary of marriage, although most of the first year I have been a widow
Posted on May 14, 2012 at 9:56am 5 Comments 0 Likes
I remember the day I met Tj. It was a Friday, I went to our mutual friends house. I pulled in the driveway and saw him working on his raggedy old truck. I remember laughing to myself, thinking what the heck is that guy wearing? (his white wife beater ) Joseph introduced us and I remember just blowing him off, and going on about my business. We all three got ready and went to Marbury’s first football game of the season. As we were walking into the stadium, Tj looked at my with his big smile…
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- At 11:54pm on June 7, 2012,
smit09 said… how are you and the kids doing???
I would love to share stories, if you're still up to it of course!
peace and healing.
stacy
- At 5:35pm on May 23, 2012,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks. If you need a little more help, go to the Home page and look in the right hand column to see the link to a "Help Desk" form.
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- At 10:19pm on May 15, 2012,
CrazyWidow said… Welcome to Born in the 80s- I'm sad that you have to be with us, but I hope that you find the support you desire. Love and hugs.
- At 9:46am on May 14, 2012, smit09 said…
Hello greenash: we are in all of the same groups/ I am so sorry about your loss-I hope you will find strength and hope here at the village as you continue to embark on your widowhood journey.
- At 5:34pm on May 13, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome Greenash: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I know you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
- At 4:20pm on May 13, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
I'm so very sorry for your loss, greenash, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.
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