"I have regrets too. It will be 2 years in May. I did not know my husband was sick. I was dealing with my mom who had alzheimer's. I had devoted my life to taking care of my mom. I felt he was not understanding of what I was going…"
It's been 22 months for me. I am still waiting for my husband to come home; to walk in that door. I am still waiting to wake up and discover this was all a dream (nightmare). This is called "magical thinking". Yes, it is…"
"“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” - Maya Angelou
When he had problems with your children, that was the dealbreaker. Never ever put anyone before your kids. They were there first, and they…"
"2011 was not a good year for me. My father died Jan 2011, My husband died May 2, 2011. Liver cancer, gone 5 weeks after diagnosis. Boss of 24+ years died 3 months to the day my husband died. Mother died 4 days before Christmas. She had alzheimers,…"
For folks who had more than one loss close together, or who lost a child, or were widowed more than once.You're not alone... please connect here. Note that there is also a Forum discussion on "multiple losses" for longer sharing.See More
"Welcome hisgirl: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts…"
Welcome hisgirl: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".