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hisgirl replied to Lisa (lost) Lamb's discussion Has anyone else just wanted to be held, but nothing else?
hisgirl commented on CatherineAmerica's blog post To be honest, "I'm Sorry" doesn't help
""I am sorry" let's me know you acknowledge my pain whether you can do anything about it or not.
I welcome "I am sorry". Thank you all for saying it to me. For me it's healing.
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hisgirl commented on Angie aka Woody's Girl's blog post Have You Gone To A Funeral Since Your Husband's?
"Yes, my husband died May 2 2011, my boss died 3 months to the day after my husband. My mother, then my father-in-law died. They died Christmas week. I have "complicated grief" and ptsd."
hisgirl commented on moderndayjune's blog post Regrets
"I have regrets too. It will be 2 years in May. I did not know my husband was sick. I was dealing with my mom who had alzheimer's. I had devoted my life to taking care of my mom. I felt he was not understanding of what I was going…"
hisgirl commented on EverydayMorning (Sam)'s blog post Kids Can Grieve, But I Can't?
"She sounds like a nut with her own issues. She should use "psychology" on her own life before trying to fix yours. If she calls you again, say "whatever, then say I got to go"."
hisgirl commented on Jake (OK)'s blog post When will "denial" go away?
"Jake,
It's been 22 months for me. I am still waiting for my husband to come home; to walk in that door. I am still waiting to wake up and discover this was all a dream (nightmare). This is called "magical thinking". Yes, it is…"
hisgirl commented on GoingHome's blog post Hurting
"“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” - Maya Angelou
When he had problems with your children, that was the dealbreaker. Never ever put anyone before your kids. They were there first, and they…"
hisgirl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group More than one loss (Multiple losses)
"2011 was not a good year for me. My father died Jan 2011, My husband died May 2, 2011. Liver cancer, gone 5 weeks after diagnosis. Boss of 24+ years died 3 months to the day my husband died. Mother died 4 days before Christmas. She had alzheimers,…"
hisgirl joined Supa Dupa Fresh's group
More than one loss (Multiple losses)
For folks who had more than one loss close together, or who lost a child, or were widowed more than once.You're not alone... please connect here. Note that there is also a Forum discussion on "multiple losses" for longer sharing.See More
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- At 10:12pm on August 11, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome hisgirl: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
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