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hog659(Neal) commented on hog659(Neal)'s blog post Not doing so good
"Its been a while since my last post...of the new lady that did a 180  on me.. total Narscissit... Thankfiuly she will be out of my life by June.. Right now I am dealing with my HELL week.. 4 years since Patricia passed..April 27th 2014... and…"
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Rainy (Misty) commented on hog659(Neal)'s blog post Not doing so good
"You can get this worked out.  However dishearting it may be,  nothing has been done that can't be undone.  Hang in there and take one step at a time.  It can be done and you can do it.  You live and learn, when this…"
Feb 8, 2018
Callie2 commented on hog659(Neal)'s blog post Not doing so good
"You’ve gotten yourself into a bad situation and if communication has broken down, it’s time for her to go. If it can be done amicably that would be best but you may need the advice of an attorney. I don’t know the details of your…"
Feb 7, 2018
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Poisons I call them

I personally hate taking Meds unless really necessary. adding Chemicals to the Body is not a good thing...  I went through Patricia's Medications. and Compiled this List... I know For a fact when she Died she was taking all that are dated 2013  and 2014   Personally  I think the doctors Poisoned her system. this list does Not contain what they gave her while in the Coma,,like propfanol ? ext sodium something in a drip...

 Here is the list...

 List Of Medications in the house Prescribed by Patricia's Doctors..

Losartan Potassium 25mg once a day

Clonazepam .5mg 1 twice daily and 2 at night and 1 as needed and after surgery 4/2014

Quetiapine fumarate 25 mg ½ at bedtime 09/2013 also after surgery 4/2014

Metoprolol Tartrate 25 mg 1 tab. twice daily 3/2014

Topiramate 100mg 1 tab twice daily 3/2014

Paroxetine HCL 40mg 2 a day

Dexilant 60mg once a day

Isosorbide Mononitrate 30 mg 1 per day 03/2014

Gabapentin 100mg 2 cap 3 times a day

Fenofibrate 54mg 2 tabs a day

Pantoprazole SOD DR 40 mg 1 per day also after surgery 4/2014

Allopurinol 300 mg 1 a day

old med Hyoscyamine .125mg from 2004

FEXOFENADINE 180mg 1 a day 2007 also after surgery 4/2014

LOVASTATIN 10Mg 1 every night 2014

Simvastatin 40 mg 1 at bedtime 04/2012


added Meds after March 2014 surgery

Famotidine 40 mg 4 /2014

Toprolol 25 mg 4/2014

PARoxetine HCL 20mg 4/2014

Amox tr-pota 875-125 mg tab 4/2014

clopidogrel f/c 75 mg gen for plavix 4/2014

atorvastatin calcium f/c 80 mg gen for lipitor 4/2014

potassium ch 20 meq 4/2014

amiodarone hcl 200 mg 4/2014

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Dad has passed My work partner is Not doing well, ad My Boss is an Ass

Posted on December 16, 2018 at 4:46pm 0 Comments

Here I am December 16th 2018..  IN June  I finally Got Rid of the wicked one out of my house. and   had the Entire upstairs Decontaminated. and bought myself a New bed. I am Now averaging 4 hours a night of sleep after almost 4.5 years of 1 hour a night. I Finally opted  to take  My vacation time in Augest.

 out in the Ozarks of MO.  it was amazing. however  I cut my 20 days vacation short 10 days, when my work partner called  that his mom may Die Before the weekend.  I drove 2 days …


Not doing so good

Posted on February 7, 2018 at 9:42am 5 Comments


Here I am 2 years later. the First year with this New lady in my life was amazing. then something happened  I do not know what,

she seemed to be Pushing away from me.. locks herself in the bedroom , days , weeks at a time.  My mom came to Visit.  she did  leave the room the entire week my mom was here.  We had a  tree fall into the house.  she was in the room for over a month. apparently came out  while I was at work.

 now she is demanding. does not speak to me. …


Crazy or Not?

Posted on December 12, 2015 at 4:00am 3 Comments

 Its been awhile since I have been on WV.  My Friend Arnie  remarried Congrates wish the two of you the best.

I had Met my late wife Patricia  on the internet, and figured I try some of the dating websites. with no so good luck as Im not a loaner.

 Last ditch  I went to the same site I met Patricia figuring Well that site worked Once   what are the chances of twice?

On the last day of my subscription. I get a hit from a woman 4 years younger than I am

.Im not…


8 months

Posted on January 24, 2015 at 5:30pm 0 Comments

 Its been a Long hard 8 months

  Im posting the recording she left me... the First 3 mins or so Is for Me.. the rest is for Her Family. I think the Battery in her phone Died before she finished what she had to say.

 If You listen to this Its a Tear Jerker.   she had a Vision the night she recorded this. Because she told me about It, But I did not know about this recording.. this was  Exactly 30 days to the day she passed away.. and it was Found by my son exactly 30 days…


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