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invisbeth81
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  • Machesney Park, IL
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Death not caused by illness or accident

Started this discussion. Last reply by vintage56(barb) Jul 21. 1 Reply

Hi. is there anyone here who's loss was not caused by an illness/medical condition, accident, or suicide?Continue

Camp Widow San Diego 2019 thoughts/comments

Started Jul 19 0 Replies

Who went to San Diego's Camp Widow 2019? What did you enjoy or not enjoy about it? Continue

Discoveries after death

Started this discussion. Last reply by Pualili221 May 11. 3 Replies

Has anyone else discovered anything about their loved one after their passing? Anything that really upsets you and makes the grieving process so much more difficult? Since my husband's passing 3 1/2…Continue

 

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vintage56(barb) replied to invisbeth81's discussion Death not caused by illness or accident
"Hi Beth, there is a private group on here, "public losses" (under the Groups tab) that might be what you are looking for."
Jul 21
invisbeth81 posted discussions
Jul 19
invisbeth81 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 80s
"Is there anyone here who's spouse didn't pass away from an illness or accident?"
Jul 19
invisbeth81 replied to Doug02122014's discussion What to do with spouses personal effects and when?
"I decided to get rid of everything of my husbands. I sold some of his stuff in a garage sale and I am donating the rest. I made that decision because I felt like if his stuff was still around, it would be harder for me to move on. It was hard going…"
Jul 10
invisbeth81 replied to ShelisJenkins (TiffanyLynn)'s discussion Anyone else a widow(er) and under the age of 35?
"Hi. Im 38 and lost my husband 6 months ago. He was 37. "
Jul 10
invisbeth81 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 80s
"Hello. I'm 38 and widowed for 6 months. Been with my late husband for 12 years and have 3 kids under 4. His death was unexpected and sudden. "
Jul 7
invisbeth81 replied to Hayley_A's discussion Where is everyone from?
"Illinois here"
Jul 7
invisbeth81 replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow SAN DIEGO 2019? Let's get acquainted!
"I am going. From Illinois. "
Jul 7
invisbeth81 replied to JustLynn's discussion Do you think you’ll get married again?
"I am 38 and only been a widow for almost 6 months. I told myself and others that no I'm not interested in dating again. But, the last couple days I have felt more lonely lately and thought to myself that it would be nice to find love again. I…"
Jul 6
Pualili221 replied to invisbeth81's discussion Discoveries after death
"Invisibeth81, I agree with Tess.  Like her I discovered a few hidden small bottles of alcohol, along with other things I found out looking through some of his things and just talking to his parents and ex-wife.  Yes, it all made me angry…"
May 11
Tess replied to invisbeth81's discussion Discoveries after death
"Invisbeth81 I am so sorry for your sudden loss. That is so much to handle in and of itself, but your discoveries do complicate your grief. It's been a recent loss so given that, don't make sudden decisions. I found that even though I was…"
May 10
Roxi replied to invisbeth81's discussion Discoveries after death
"Dear beth take care of you and your beautiful children...hope you have some helping people around you...don't mind about your husband did...he did the best for you and your children...a big hug roxi"
May 10
invisbeth81 posted a discussion

Discoveries after death

Has anyone else discovered anything about their loved one after their passing? Anything that really upsets you and makes the grieving process so much more difficult? Since my husband's passing 3 1/2 months ago, I've been discovering things about him I never knew about. Personal things. No, not that he was having an affair but other stuff. Stuff that I thought he would have been able to tell me. We were together for 12 years and talked about anything and everything personal. I really don't know…See More
May 9
invisbeth81 replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"I was 37. He was 36. "
May 9
invisbeth81 replied to Canshifter's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Was told that I should just "get over it and move on". Sad thing is that it was my late husband's father that said it. He claims that he was taking the death worse than anyone else even tho he never had a personal relationship with…"
May 9
invisbeth81 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi. I'm Beth from Rockford, IL. I'm recently widowed (only 3 1/2 mo) and have 3 young children, all age 4 and under. My husband's passing was completely unexpected. Accidental injury at home. "
May 9

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At 12:28am on May 8, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, invisbeth81. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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