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Supa Dupa Fresh commented on jacuser's blog post Go On
"Hi Jacuser, thanks for sharing your point of view! I just posted the "master post" so you can see the links to what the others have written so far. X Supa"
Oct 4, 2012
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Go On

I think the show is good.  It is funny and we certainly need to laugh despite our grief. See More
Oct 4, 2012
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Go On

I think the show is good.  It is funny and we certainly need to laugh despite our grief. See More
Oct 2, 2012
jacuser commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group More than one loss (Multiple losses)
"Hi Underthemoon, I, too, lost 2 husbands, 1 in 2001 and another in 2010.  It has been very hard and in some way it is harder this time.  My grief is all mixed up.  I am grieving the recent traumatic death of my 2nd husband and…"
Sep 5, 2012
jacuser commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group More than one loss (Multiple losses)
"Does anyone notice thgat there is not a lot of comments in multiple losses?"
Feb 7, 2012
jacuser replied to A Widowed Father's discussion Widowed again? Were you? Would you get into a relationship knowing you would be?
"I have been widowed twice.  My first husband and I were married for 38 years and he died after only being sick for a few weeks.  I was devastated.  Getting married again was the last thinng on my mind.  I met Patrick through a…"
Jan 26, 2012
jacuser commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group More than one loss (Multiple losses)
"I, too, lost my husband suddenly in Oct 2010 while we were on vacation.  I, too, am a widow x2.  My first husband died 11 years ago after being sick for a few weeks.  We were married 38 years.  I met Patrick, a widower, and we…"
Nov 17, 2011
jacuser commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group More than one loss (Multiple losses)
"Dear Misong,      When I read your story I just had to answer.  You are an amazing woman to be able to still be grateful and to try to live each day to the fullest.  You are certainly an example to us all who have…"
Aug 15, 2011
Macduff (Hal) and jacuser are now friends
Jul 18, 2011
jacuser commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"So sorry for your losses.  It is so sad to think about a life alone.  Patrick died Oct. 26, 2010.  Grief is hard work.  One minute I am up and boom I am down.  I have gone down this road before.  My 1st husband died 10…"
Jul 17, 2011
jacuser replied to Alive & Mortal's discussion Post-Traumatic Stress Syndrome - descriptions, symptoms, hope...
"I am trying EMDR starting on Friday.  My husband of 2 1/2 years died in my arms while we were swimming in Mexico.  It has been 8 1/2 months and I am still having trouble sleeping.  I am afraid to go into a deep sleep for fear of a…"
Jul 12, 2011
jacuser and Dianne in Nevada are now friends
Jun 12, 2011
jacuser commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 40s or earlier
"Hi I am new to this group.  Have been reading your stories.  Thank you for sharing them with me.  It helps to know that I am not alone in this grief.  I lost 2 spouses.  Ten years ago my husband of 38 years was diagnosed…"
May 3, 2011
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May 3, 2011
jacuser commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"Dear Lucky,      Thank you for your kind words.  I do count myself as very fortunate to have been loved by 2 wonderful men.  I am in good health and have wonderful family and now have Patrick's family as…"
Apr 29, 2011
jacuser commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"WHERE IS GOD?                 Ten years ago my husband, Carl, of 38 years called me from work to tell me that he had just coughed up some blood.  Life was good.  Our 3…"
Apr 28, 2011

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Posted on October 2, 2012 at 8:24pm 1 Comment

I think the show is good.  It is funny and we certainly need to laugh despite our grief. 

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At 11:26am on June 10, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…

 

 

Syl,

I hope you're still stopping by. There is wonderful support here. I'm 60 and was married 41 years. I cannot imagine having to endure a second loss.

Bless you.

Dianne

At 7:30pm on March 26, 2011, Boo said…
Welcome to the Village ... please know that this is a safe and warm environment and I hope you will love it here as much as I do.  You may like to join a group (e.g. the decade you were born in, or if you were suddenly widowed, etc so that you can chat with other widows in a similar situation ...)  Please don't hesitate to join in with any of the discussions, or even start one of your own.  And, just say if you'd like some help with navigating the site x
 
 
 

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