"Hi Underthemoon, I, too, lost 2 husbands, 1 in 2001 and another in 2010. It has been very hard and in some way it is harder this time. My grief is all mixed up. I am grieving the recent traumatic death of my 2nd husband and…"
"I have been widowed twice. My first husband and I were married for 38 years and he died after only being sick for a few weeks. I was devastated. Getting married again was the last thinng on my mind. I met Patrick through a…"
"I, too, lost my husband suddenly in Oct 2010 while we were on vacation. I, too, am a widow x2. My first husband died 11 years ago after being sick for a few weeks. We were married 38 years. I met Patrick, a widower, and we…"
When I read your story I just had to answer. You are an amazing woman to be able to still be grateful and to try to live each day to the fullest. You are certainly an example to us all who have…"
"So sorry for your losses. It is so sad to think about a life alone. Patrick died Oct. 26, 2010. Grief is hard work. One minute I am up and boom I am down. I have gone down this road before. My 1st husband died 10…"
"I am trying EMDR starting on Friday. My husband of 2 1/2 years died in my arms while we were swimming in Mexico. It has been 8 1/2 months and I am still having trouble sleeping. I am afraid to go into a deep sleep for fear of a…"
"Hi I am new to this group. Have been reading your stories. Thank you for sharing them with me. It helps to know that I am not alone in this grief. I lost 2 spouses. Ten years ago my husband of 38 years was diagnosed…"
Welcome to the Village ... please know that this is a safe and warm environment and I hope you will love it here as much as I do. You may like to join a group (e.g. the decade you were born in, or if you were suddenly widowed, etc so that you can chat with other widows in a similar situation ...) Please don't hesitate to join in with any of the discussions, or even start one of your own. And, just say if you'd like some help with navigating the site x