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jas71188
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  • Hemet, CA
  • United States
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jas71188 replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"God, I just had breakfast with a group from a local church (that I had visited & decided it wasn't where I belonged).   New lady in town!!  They all seemed to be interested.  Mostly polite, NOT MY TYPES.  One guy in…"
Aug 9
jas71188 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Welcome to this wonderful web site.  I read it on & off.  Yes, it's very painful - but this is indeed a community.  It is my prayer that you will find some comfort here. "
Aug 7
jas71188 replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"My own personal opinion is that I will never go on a dating web site again.  I agree.  Too many ifs, buts & maybes.  NOT SAFE. Ann"
Aug 7
jas71188 replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"Ditto. Today is the 2nd anniversary of my husband's passing.  It was just as much of a bitch breaking up with the boyfriend.  Actually, even with out differences, he was the last person I wanted to be with.  I do not want to go…"
Aug 6
jas71188 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"A loss is a loss.  When I ended my last relationship recently, it opened up the wound of my husband's passing.  There is just no way around it......"
Aug 6
jas71188 replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"I tried 4-5 different ones.  I got the most responses from Plenty of Fish.  It was pretty revolting.  I saw great profiles but the guys turned out to be real jerks....I was on Match for about a week & realized it was a waste of…"
Aug 6
jas71188 replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"Hi Susan, Just my experience here.  I made the mistake of going on line.  What I found mostly were men that were less than truthful, had mental issues, drinking problems & lied about their status or availability or what they…"
Aug 6
jas71188 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"MOTHER'S DAY was a tough one for me.  I was a step mother for 30 years, to 5 adult children.  I got along  fine with the step sons & middle daughter but the youngest & oldest daughter I had problems with.  This was a…"
May 17, 2017
jas71188 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"So sorry for your loss Jules.  We all handle grief in our own ways.  Perhaps over time, your memories will take on a different meaning.  You will definitely change over time.  I have no problem remembering, it's just a tad…"
May 17, 2017
jas71188 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"So so sorry for your loss.  From my own personal experience (my husband died 08/08/2016), I found that I was absolutely NUMB for about 3 months. I started to come out of it.  I was attending a secular grief group, which helped a…"
May 2, 2017
jas71188 commented on Mariposa's blog post Article: Dating After the Death of a Spouse
"OK - so I'm a single lady in my early 70's in pretty good shape.  My husband of 28 years was a diabetic so our intimate life was kind of limited.  First 7 years we were married, it was all good.  When he was diagnosed with…"
Apr 26, 2017
jas71188 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"My name is Ann.  My husband passed away on 08/08/2016.  Like so many before me (I'm assuming), I was numb for about 3-4 months......then I started to some around.  I live in the low desert of So. California.  I did attend a…"
Apr 22, 2017
Patience left a comment for jas71188
"Welcome to Widville, Jas71188, I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the help link at the top of…"
Apr 22, 2017

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At 4:03am on April 22, 2017, Patience said…
Welcome to Widville, Jas71188, I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the help link at the top of the page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.
Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.
 
 
 

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