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"Special Memory" You will always be, a special part of meYou will always be, a special memoryI'll always cherish wonderfull moments you have given meYou are in my heart, where ever I may beAll the ti…

Posted on April 28, 2015 at 6:46am 0 Comments

"Special Memory"

You will always be, a special part of me

You will always be, a special memory

I'll always cherish wonderfull moments you have given me

You are in my heart, where ever I may be

All the times we've shared, will always be close to me

Songs my heart will sing, refreshing melody

I'll put together all of your laughter like a symphony

I'll remember you, where ever I may be…

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At 7:34am on May 6, 2015, Hornet (Cindy) said…

Hello again, Judy. I was looking at your page and saw that you lost your beloved husband almost a year ago.

It isn't real, is it?

I lost my sweet husband, Rick, in September of 2013...and it still isn't quite real for me either.

The house is so very quiet. I am not surprised by the quiet anymore...but I am not used to it. I am not surprised to have so much 'free' time...but I am not used to it. I don't WANT to be used to it. Maybe that is what keeps me in the 'unreal' zone. I am refusing to get used to a life I never without Rick.

You see, we ALL feel these things. I know you are still in the worst part of this nightmare...but you WILL get through it. You will have happy moments, happy days, happy relationships with people. I am slowly, slowly climbing out of the pit into the sunshine. I am slowly finding ways to get through each day and feel that happiness.

I am a true believer that Our Heavenly Father wants to live our lives to their fullest. Use the talents He gave us to do it. And leave the world a better place when we, too, are called back to Him.

Just like my Rick did. He left the world a better place...and I am so proud to be his wife. I have to work harder now to live like he did...being kind to everyone, forgiving those who wronged him, SHOWING the love he felt for others, being humble of heart. I owe it to God. I owe it to Rick. I owe it to my children. I owe it to myself.

I hope you are well and trying to take good care of yourself, Judy. I hope you surround yourself with kind and gentle people who will look out for you while you feel so wounded. I hope you can wake up each morning and feel that the sadness of this grief is just a little lighter each day.

I hope you see rays of sunshine.

Peace to you, my new friend.


At 4:17pm on May 2, 2015, Hornet (Cindy) said…

Hello, Judy. I am so sorry you are a member of this club, but you will find great comfort many wonderful, hurting hearts helping each other. Take good care of yourself...and visit here as often as you need to. There will ALWAYS be someone to talk to. Cindy

At 2:17am on April 29, 2015, TG (Trudi) said…


All friends are welcome :)

At 5:57pm on April 26, 2015, Pat G. said…

Hi Judy, thank you for the friend request.

At 5:57pm on April 26, 2015, Marsha said…

It was nice meeting you in chat Judy. So sorry for the reason you are here but glad you found Widowed Village. I hope you keep coming to chat and I look forward to getting to know you. (((Hugs)))

At 6:28pm on April 12, 2015, rodsgurl09 said…

Welcome to Widville. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

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