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Started this discussion. Last reply by SageInTheGarden Oct 13, 2018. 1 Reply

I am not sure where to post this (pardon my ignorance) but I recently started a blog, my life as a 25-year-old widow. I have found very few resources for young widows which is mainly the reason I…Continue


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laying with the torture
of the abundant murk
like some fading sea,

my eyes
steam up
like a creamy
morning mist.

my mind
feels like honey
bursting from its comb.

my heart
has grown wrinkled
from hours
the river.

and some nights
as the wind swells in,
I think my grief
could make
the day
stand still.

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Poetry Book

Posted on August 17, 2018 at 11:03am 3 Comments


I just wanted to share that I recently published a book on my grief and continued grief. It is all about my spouse who I lost last September - it is a book of poetry entitled My Groans Pour Out Like Water you can find it on Amazon ( here and read some of the reviews on Goodreads here (…


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At 6:08pm on September 23, 2018, CinaBina said…

Thank you for responding.  I'm sorry for your loss at such a young age.  I'm pretty much at home not really doing anything or going anywhere either.  It's still hard for me to accept that my husband isn't coming back and I just don't know what to do with myself.  

At 2:38pm on September 19, 2018, Peach said…

Hi Kat,

Here is my phone number (202) 450-5731. Don't be shy about calling.

I'm here for you.

Here is my personal e-mail. [email protected]

At 7:33pm on July 3, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, kat. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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