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My first anniversary- alone

Started this discussion. Last reply by kenslove Mar 13. 5 Replies

My husband and I were together for 25 years, but were only married last April when he realized he wouldn't be with us much longer.  He wanted me to get his social security, but he only lived for 20…Continue

It's time to see you through our eyes

Started this discussion. Last reply by Susan Mar 21. 7 Replies

My husband asked me once how you can tell if it's really love. I told him it's when you learn to love yourself because of the way you see yourself reflected in The other persons eyes. When they…Continue

I feel like it's killing me inside, but I can't actually f feel it

Started this discussion. Last reply by SweetMelissa2007 Aug 22, 2016. 2 Replies

One of the things I brought my husband and I together when we first met was that we had both been through very painful experiences with former relationships. One of the things I learned to do before…Continue

He believed suicide was his only release, and I let him go

Started this discussion. Last reply by SweetMelissa2007 Aug 7, 2016. 8 Replies

He believed suicide was his only release, and I let him go. There, I said it, the truth I've been trying to hide from. I knew when I went to work that day what was going to happen. Ken has been…Continue

 

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Susan replied to kenslove 's discussion It's time to see you through our eyes
Mar 21
kenslove replied to kenslove 's discussion It's time to see you through our eyes
"For me, I remember the things ken valued in me. Then I remind myself that the things he valued were already inside me. He was the mirror that showed them to me, but they were always there. They still are, and he would still want me to see them. With…"
Mar 20
Susan replied to kenslove 's discussion It's time to see you through our eyes
"... You just started my tears again.... I love what you said... But how can I do that ? . Susan"
Mar 14
BabushkaD (Debbie) replied to kenslove 's discussion It's time to see you through our eyes
"Thank you for this."
Mar 14
Lupe's husband replied to kenslove 's discussion My first anniversary- alone
"kenslove- I have an idea. Try doing one random act of kindness for every year you would have been married. This year, you only have to do one. Hold a door open for someone. Pay for someone's gas at a gas station. Ask a server to pick someone at…"
Mar 12
Frank replied to kenslove 's discussion My first anniversary- alone
"Hi, I'm sorry that you have joined "Our Club."  I think you will find that as you read our posts and think about them that you will find here is the right place to be.  We all speak of the same feelings and use most of…"
Mar 10
vintage56(barb) replied to kenslove 's discussion My first anniversary- alone
"more (((hugs)))). It really sucks."
Mar 10
kellygreenstrat (Colin) replied to kenslove 's discussion My first anniversary- alone
"(((hugs))) you have us.  I'm a long ways off from milestones, and I dread them just as much.  You have 25 years of memories and I know how much that means, we were together 24.  I'm so sorry you're going through…"
Mar 10
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kenslove replied to kenslove 's discussion It's time to see you through our eyes
"Wishing you a very good night!!!"
Mar 9
Susan replied to kenslove 's discussion Balancing who I was with who I will be
"Yes we will. :-)  Susan"
Mar 9
Nance63 replied to kenslove 's discussion Balancing who I was with who I will be
"Thanks, Susan; and you, also, will come to find your renewed you, in however long it takes... we'll get there.  Keep sharing."
Mar 9
Susan replied to kenslove 's discussion Balancing who I was with who I will be
"Nance,    Take as long as you need :-) Susan"
Mar 9
kellygreenstrat (Colin) replied to kenslove 's discussion It's time to see you through our eyes
"I love this.  And I needed this tonight, it's beautiful.  I know we're all struggling to figure out who we are without our significant other.  I want to embrace what you've said here, and I know it will be a long time…"
Mar 9
kenslove replied to kenslove 's discussion It's time to see you through our eyes
"Sorry, the title should've been it's time to see yourself through your eyes"
Mar 9
Nance63 replied to kenslove 's discussion Balancing who I was with who I will be
"I am thinking of this time as a sort of pregnant pause.  Something really ended with my husband's death, but I've not been quite able to BEGIN again yet. I am still in a pause, while I recover, gather my strength and resources and…"
Mar 9

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At 4:28am on July 29, 2016, Laurel1950 said…

Thank you for your response.  I'm new at this website.  I am trying to get into going out with women that are widows too.  I need adult companionship.  I love my daughter and granddaughter very much, but I need some other interaction. 

At 4:53pm on June 14, 2016, Joyce said…

Welcome kenslove: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat.You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences.  Post and join in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"

 
 
 

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