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sandi
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  • Rochester, NH
  • United States
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beautiful day..nothing to do

Started this discussion. Last reply by Susan Apr 7, 2017. 4 Replies

Its such a lovely day but spending it alone is the pits.  Seems harder and harder to connect with friends, not that I have a lot of friends and I am missing my hubby so much.  I try to keep busy, but…Continue

 

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sandi replied to LostandSad's discussion Time Heals All Wounds?
"I couldn't agree more. Going on 3 year and yet I feel no better at all. As for being normal, I don't even remember how that felt."
Oct 20
sandi commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Barzan, loved your story BOUT SIGNS.  For me its been feathers..lots of them.  Last year at camp I asked my husband to send me a feather every day as a sign that he was there with me.  By the end of summer I had a bag full.  I…"
May 10
sandi commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I too shed tears every day.  Not all day just a few minutes here and there.  There are so many triggers aren't there.  A song, a picture, doing everything all alone...It's going on 2years for me and I hope it gets better."
Apr 27
sandi commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"I am also going on the 2 year mark. My husband was 62 and we were married 43 years.  I miss him every day. He was my world and always made me laugh.  I don't think I have laughed since.  I hope this journey gets better, the…"
Apr 7
sandi commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Dear Don, so sorry for you. It is devastating to lose your love and best friend.  Every day is a struggle to even breathe, but you must.  I was so lost when my husband passed, its been 19 months and honestly I am still lost, but each day…"
Mar 19
grant left a comment for sandi
"How do I put you on my friends wall?I'd like to."
Feb 12
sandi posted photos
Feb 11
grant left a comment for sandi
"thank you for sharing with me last night.I felt some peace of mind when I went to bed last night.By the way I'm really slow at typing on the computer.I wanted to and you as a friend this site but not sure how. Off to walking my dogs. O my…"
Feb 10
sandi replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion FEBRUARY Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"hubby's birthday coming up on the 17th, not sure how or what to do to get thru.  I am at 20 months now and it seems so much worse this year. "
Feb 2
sandi replied to Riley's discussion Can you love someone too much? in the group Widowed in 2016
"Me too and I also didn't realize how much I took for granted"
Jan 20
sandi replied to CarolinaHeart's discussion TRAVELING ALONE? in the group Born in the 50s
"count me in"
Jan 19
sandi replied to Riley's discussion Can you love someone too much? in the group Widowed in 2016
"Miket I hope those people are right and it gets better.  So far this second year seems so much worse.  Its like every day is a repeat for me. Not knowing what to do to get thru the day, trying to think of things to keep busy, crying every…"
Jan 19
sandi replied to Riley's discussion Can you love someone too much? in the group Widowed in 2016
"I feel the same way Riley, I always said I would be ok if anything happened to him..and I am definitely not OK.  He was my best friend, my happiness always made me laugh...I can't remember the last time I laughed.  I keep busy, but…"
Jan 19
sandi posted photos
Jan 11
sandi commented on Peach's blog post Dealing with emptiness and idle time and low energy
"Dear Peach, I am pretty much feeling the same as you.  My hubby died 5/31/16 and Christmas was much harder.  I also bought my self some new clothes, and I have made plans for new years eve with another widow.  We are going to a…"
Dec 28, 2017
sandi replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"I was 60 when my hubby passed.  That was 18 mos ago.  I feel like I will probably be alone. I can't picture myself falling in love again.  The stress of being a caretaker for 10 mos and watching him slowly die definitely took its…"
Dec 26, 2017

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Farewell to Albie

Posted on May 29, 2017 at 4:35pm 0 Comments

Farewell to the man I love

When I was sitting out on the deck last night I noticed a single star.  With the clouds so thick you couldn't see the moon, I knew it had to be you, and although I miss you so much I realized that you weren't gone at all.  In fact you are and always will be alive in our hearts and memories.

I can see you tinkering with your candles, riding on your harley and constantly building something.  You lived to be outside, you were happy most any place, it…

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At 12:16pm on February 12, 2018, grant said…

How do I put you on my friends wall?I'd like to.

At 7:25am on February 10, 2018, grant said…

thank you for sharing with me last night.I felt some peace of mind when I went to bed last night.By the way I'm really slow at typing on the computer.I wanted to and you as a friend this site but not sure how. Off to walking my dogs. O my sister lives in new hampshire,tells me all the time how cold it been. Well talk to you latter,thanks Grant

At 7:16pm on April 15, 2017, BabushkaD (Debbie) said…

Hi Sandi,

   Sorry you missed us in the chatroom! Sometimes it's hit and miss there. Hope you have a blessed Easter.

-Debbie

At 6:58am on July 11, 2016, rodsgurl09 said…

Welcome to Widville. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

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