"Lisa I have read and re read your letter,my heart goes out for you. Getting the car or even thinking about it is emotional,,you are not living on borrowed time, you are grieving openly about people you love, and sometimes it seems to take forever,…"
"jerry 1 day at a time...i look at mitches rings,,,,and things . I dont think you have feelings that i dont have,, feel like am looseing her again,,,but she would rather see somebody useing her cloths ,,than not as she was a second hand shopper,,,,a…"
"I watch and listen and find i am not alone here..suz rburdo,we share 1 thing in comon,,we miss all and everything,, regardless of how many months we have been with out our mate,, hugs to you all,,,,morning noon and nite,,,,,,kl"
"suz i cant really remember at 2 months thats how numb i was,and still am,,after 4 realization set in,,,along with missing,,,just keep your memories up front and do not dwell on negative,,, thinking of all ,,sleep well,kl"
"suz talk to us ,,and me,, email me tell me yor story ,ok ,,,will tell mine,, fair enough,, ok to bed as 5 am is comming ,and lunch to make ,,and pull laundry to sort out,,,doing 2 jobs now,,just sooo much…"
"suz just lie about your age and put some make up on ok,,, i am sure you will pass my judgement gate,,,good grief you are loved and wanted here regardless of age,,, get back here and talk to us,,,okkkkkk"
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Thank you KL for the friend request. We try to all work together to help us all survive some of the worst things that will ever happen to us. It's not easy to learn to live without the the ones we love, but I hope being with others like me will help along the way. I hope we can all help you also.
hahah- it's funny to me that somebody wants MY advice, but I receive alot, so I can spread what I've learned! I think about my husband alot, but mainly when I need strength. Otherwise, I've been working on some goals...something to keep me moving forward. I take some of the ideas that we had worked on together, and then adapt them to fit my life. Sometimes it sucks. Sometimes it feels like 'what's the point', but I'm learning alot on the way, I reach out to friends when I'm feeling down and need a lift, I'm trying not to focus on any one person (aside from my daughter), I cry when I feel like it, and otherwise, I'm just trying to stay active to keep the endorphins going :)
Welcome Kl to our wonderful community filled with kind and caring people. I'm very sorry for your loss, but I'm glad you've joined us. No one should have to travel this emotional journy alone, we would be honored to walk it with you.