"I am the process of planning a Holiday Bash for widows in or near Central Pennsylvania for sometime in mid-December on a weeknight. So far we have an offer for a private room in a restaurant in New Holland (Eastern Lancaster County) with no…"
"just having a bad day. it will be 8 months wed... we loved dressing up and doing halloween stuff with our friends... i don't get on here often but i get the emails and pray for all of you. if your on fb look me up there or email me…"
"i don't post here often but i get emails pretty regularly of what ppl are posting... and i just wanted to log on real quick and say welcome if you are new to this awful club and if i can help in anyway i am an email away email@example.com…"
"i wonder about this ... there were different things... gary always said he would die young he was 2 months from turning 33... then i was online one day looking at mayhem tickets ( a big concert of awesome bands lol) and he said he didn't want…"
"Gary was the most honest person you would meet when it came to his thoughts he never held back. He honestly didn't care what anyone thought. If he thought you were an idiot you knew it but that harshness aside he could insult you and within…"
"bad day very very bad day, bad couple days. we don't have kids so i'm not sad that it's my first mother's day alone. i'm just a wreck and honestly so over all of this. really why bother?? he was my world and now he's…"
"I honestly don't ever feel like Gary is around... But that doesn't stop me from talking to him everyday! He also was only 32 when he died on March 2nd and would have been 33 this past Sunday. my prayers are with you. I'm only a month…"
"does anyone get mad at their friends?? there are 2 couples that gary and i always loved and i still do but they make me so angry because they fight so much!!! they actually are talking about divorce!!! why did gary have to die when we were so…"
"the event was a huge success. after my expenses we still raised over 2100 so i will be able to do 2 $1000 scholarships! i got to talk about gary a cpl times.. they made me go onstage... though i cried through it ppl said i did amazing. i'm a…"
"i understand dawn. gary's birthday is tomorrow. and it will be 2 months on monday. what a nightmare. i sometimes pull in the garage expecting his truck to be parked there and then imagine walking in the house to give him a kiss. the pain…"
I am the process of planning a Holiday Bash for widows in or near Central Pennsylvania for sometime in mid-December on a weeknight. So far we have an offer for a private room in a restaurant in New Holland (Eastern Lancaster County) with no obligation to purchase a meal or drinks, just a nice place to hang with one another. If you're interested, please join in on this conversation: http://widowedvillage.org/forum/topics/central-pennsylvania-holiday-dinner?xg_source=activity Thank you!
I'm so sorry today was one of those blindingly painful days of grief. ((HUGS)) to you today. I know everything hurts like heck right now, I felt the same way especially so close to the loss as you are now. Hang in there, I know it did get better for me eventually. Its so ok and natural to feel all you are feeling right now. I'm so sorry today was so hard... Said a prayer for you tonight and asked the Lord to bring you comfort tonight in your sorrows.
Hey, just wanted to welcome you! I noticed that you're from Johnstown...thats where my husband grew up. Wouldn't it be funny if you knew him? Last name was Bender :) He graduated in '98 from Forest Hills.